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18 Apr 2008, 12:01 am

Is there anyone here who has dated and/or known middle eastern women? There are a LOT of them around here, some of them are of course conservative muslims and wear a Hejab but there are some who dress in a more western fasion..OMFG! Lemme tell ya; they come here and some of the dress SO trampy :P : . Sure, some of them are friendly but they seem to be Particularly scornful when white(non-muslim) guys notice them and look them over. Ive gotten some scowls from some of them for oggling them-they must not expect it and strongly object because they are prolly still muslim though they dont dress like it.
I particularly like Iranian women cuz they're attractive and the really seem interesting, but they also seem to have that notorious "princess" complex-a LOT of women from that part of the world are like that(including jewish girls :mrgreen:).



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18 Apr 2008, 12:50 am

I'm pretty sure any obvious "oogling" of girls is going to cause a bad reaction, and not specifically muslim women.


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18 Apr 2008, 1:50 am

"Trampy" is a good thing?



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18 Apr 2008, 2:27 am

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"Trampy" is a good thing?


Uh, NO. I didnt mean to give that impression but as a rule you NEVER stare at muslim women; especially when they are wearing a Hejab and/or an Abaya. But really, I dont quite "oogle" them but sometime look at them and even smile a bit but they act as though they are Totally off limits to white boys :? .



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18 Apr 2008, 2:30 am

Maybe they're just off-limits to you. :?



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18 Apr 2008, 2:34 am

RainKing wrote:
Maybe they're just off-limits to you. :?



f**k that BS RainKing!
Smartassery is just so NOT cool in the Love and Dating forum Bro :x



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18 Apr 2008, 2:44 am

D1nk0 wrote:
RainKing wrote:
Maybe they're just off-limits to you. :?



f**k that BS RainKing!
Smartassery is just so NOT cool in the Love and Dating forum Bro :x


No, I actually mean it, just not that way. Possibly either they get a bad impression of you, or you set yourself apart with your own way of thinking. You'd have to know how they act toward everybody before generalizing from just your own experience.



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18 Apr 2008, 2:45 am

D1nk0 wrote:
Sure, some of them are friendly but they seem to be Particularly scornful when white(non-muslim) guys notice them and look them over. Ive gotten some scowls from some of them for oggling them-they must not expect it and strongly object because they are prolly still muslim though they dont dress like it.


That means they want you Dink0! :salut:



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18 Apr 2008, 2:53 am

RainKing wrote:
D1nk0 wrote:
RainKing wrote:
Maybe they're just off-limits to you. :?



f**k that BS RainKing!
Smartassery is just so NOT cool in the Love and Dating forum Bro :x


No, I actually mean it, just not that way. Possibly either they get a bad impression of you, or you set yourself apart with your own way of thinking. You'd have to know how they act toward everybody before generalizing from just your own experience.


White women dont act this way. They DO get annoyed when they're being oggled but otherwise they certainly dont
have the same air about them. If generalizations can be made about Latin women then why not Middle Eastern Women??
Dont you see RainKing that there are some serious CULTURAL differences and barriers here? Its VERY rare to see them
with white bf's but I occasionally do see middle-eastern guys with white gf's. You cant dismiss the very real possibility that
they are strongly discouraged from dating outside of their religion and their ethnic group.



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18 Apr 2008, 4:25 am

Cool topic! I am from a multicultural background. I see the white cuties notice me too but they never say anything. So what's the point? Men of color seem to be more verbal. They'll say, "Nice smile" or things along that line. Of course, there are some not so nice things or catcalls that are highly annoying, esp. when you're an aspie and not even dressed that provocatively or anything. The silent treatment has made me realize that these men might be attracted to you but they have no intentions of anything further for reasons such as that they're married or have a significant other or just don't want to be with a person who's not white. That's the impression I get. I am disgusted by attention my men that I find repulsive and also by catcallers and those who stand too close. I have to say in my city, the caucasian white men are the best-behaved when it comes to the trains and subways and public spaces. Men from other backgrounds and countries can often be rude and indecent. And they oogle, oogle. The caucasian cuties usually are from an upper social class and they know how to control themselves, in public anyway. The most they might do is come a little closer or sit opposite or next to you even when there are some empty seats. I've had a few good, albeit uncomfortable, experiences like that. Moments like this help when I feel all alone and unlovable. Other times, they make me feel even more depressed because I don't have anyone to even do the most basic romantic things with. :(


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18 Apr 2008, 4:32 am

Send a picture and I'll let you know what I think. :wink:



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18 Apr 2008, 11:08 am

redroseuptown wrote:
Send a picture and I'll let you know what I think. :wink:


Have a look in the members only forum under the "post a pic" thread :wink:



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18 Apr 2008, 10:57 pm

WHERE the hell is LePetitePrince when you need him!



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18 Apr 2008, 11:03 pm

I don't know but middle-eastern men are where it's at.



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18 Apr 2008, 11:55 pm

Arab women are pretty



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19 Apr 2008, 1:53 am

redroseuptown wrote:
I am disgusted by attention my men that I find repulsive and also by catcallers and those who stand too close. I have to say in my city, the caucasian white men are the best-behaved when it comes to the trains and subways and public spaces. Men from other backgrounds and countries can often be rude and indecent. And they oogle, oogle. The caucasian cuties usually are from an upper social class and they know how to control themselves, in public anyway. :(


I've always thought that it's just differences in culture. I don't think the men from other backgrounds are used to the idea of personal space, which is a very european concept. In Africa for example, people live tightly packed together, and so the personal space concept becomes ridiculous. South American men generally don't believe it is rude to oogle women, and South American women know how to handle South American men. If only people were more culturally aware, these problems wouldn't exist. What ethnicity are you, redroseuptown?