Who understands women?

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As I have got older I think I have developed a real negative view of woman now.

On one hand they are really insecurer about themselves and on the other hand they are really shallow and superficial.

I've got a mate who told me he doesn't even bother with attractive women because he finds them a complete waste of time.

I look at this whole alpha male BS and if I take a cynical view and understand their agender everything seems to fit and I can completely understand them.

I can pull off a lot of alpha male BS and turn myself into a bit of a player, but it is a fake me. I'm just finding it hard to respect and trust them, if I can't geniunely like them anymore it is impossible for me to have a proper loving relationship.

This is probably more of a rant than anything..

What a load of discriminatory crap, with mates and advice like that, no surprise you have a bad view...

Woman may be different from men - surprise, surprise - but looks have none thing to do with it, its the person... try being real friends and getting to know a few... sometimes when we see fault in everyone else, I often say take a closer look at yourself!

Well I feel woman are not that interested in me as a person, they are more interested in me for my attributes and what I can give them.

Women are hard on looks, but that is just one part of it. They really do judge you. Things balance out other things. There is this magical Mr Right that they are all looking for. Woman that do like me, like me for my talents and attributes, if I didn't have them they would pass me off.

Just experience sorry, I'd truely love to think otherwise.

I'm not being discriminatory, I'd dreed to think of what most males are like. I've also noticed that woman have a very negative view of men anyway.

I'll have a read.

I think I'm just having a bit of a rant more than anything.

Some women don't even understand women... But then there's so many different types of women. Observe, note (mentally), and learn some basic rules about the woman you're interested in. And remember, those things may not even work with the next one.

Well I think calling them 'they' and painting them all with one brush might be where you're going wrong, Mr. OP.

I understand women a bit from my times hanging with some and having female friends as well.

I don't blame men for looking for women who like men.

I certainly have no interest in men who don't like women.

MR_BOGAN I thought you would enjoy this quote, and I am a woman
oh dear we have a sense of humor too!

Quote:
Love is the delightful interval between meeting a beautiful girl and discovering that she looks like a haddock. - John Barrymore