I need help! should I give her a call?

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windscar15
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19 May 2008, 1:01 am

I haven't talked to her in weeks. She hasn't responded to emails

I'm afraid of her dad's reaction on the phone.

I want to talk to her again, but her dad is standing in my way.



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19 May 2008, 1:17 am

Sad the way life goes. Don't know your situation that well enough.

If she's not responding to your emails then either something's wrong with her computer or email or she's no longer interested in you.

I don't know b/c if I was in your case I wouldn't bother calling her if she isn't showing any signs of communication.


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19 May 2008, 1:22 am

You know, if her father is the way you've been saying he is, he could have gotten access to her e-mail 8O
Can you figure out a way to meet her one on one?



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19 May 2008, 1:27 am

I assume she's interested but is so wrapped up in schoolwork that she can't talk.



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19 May 2008, 1:28 am

windscar15 wrote:
I assume she's interested but is so wrapped up in schoolwork that she can't talk.
*nods*
That's definitely a possibility.

Do you guys go to the same school?



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19 May 2008, 7:29 pm

possibility but... if she were that interested she'd make time?

My apologies, I'm usually optimistic, but with the teensy little exception of pessimistic towards women -- frankly I have yet to find one that impresses me that much.

I'm in a similar boat right now -- message a girl, no message back, what the hell does that mean?

Hell if I know, but you said you've talked to her in the past? I'd say she's waiting to get back to you. Just a hunch, but women usually prove me wrong. Just, dear god, don't flood her inbox with 500 messages :)

And then if she never gets back to you *shrug*



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20 May 2008, 1:37 am

I actually called her today and her dad basically hung up on me.

I didn't get a chance to talk.
He didn't even say she wasn't available or didn't want to talk he just hung up.



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20 May 2008, 5:09 am

i'm soy but that is actually a teensy bit funny -- what the hell does he have against you? she isn't six is she? what the hell ishis poblem?

and pivate foms of communication? do you know if he monitors them? including facebook/myspace? she have a cellphone? talk to her alone in school?

wow, talk about barrage of questions



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20 May 2008, 8:02 pm

The main thing you need to tell us is why is her dad so mad at you?

If we don't know that, then I don't think we can really help you all that much.


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21 May 2008, 9:39 pm

He shoos away all of her friends from what she tells me.

He actually listens in on the other line whenever she's on the phone.



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21 May 2008, 10:09 pm

Well then I guess you just have to talk to her in person and work out a way to keep in touch.


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