I couldn't understand the title of this thread at all until pinkbow translated..
1. Try learning English, people such as myself find it annoying when others use chatspeak..
2. You're not going to find a girlfriend on here, especially around where you live and even if there was someone here as desperate as you chances are she lives 500+ miles away and there's a good chance you won't find her looks or her personality very attractive.
3. Try browsing your town for a girlfriend, not the Internet.
(For the record I'm still not in 100% understanding how online relationships work.. Ugh..)