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shellshock1911
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25 May 2008, 1:46 pm

What is the best way to approach a girl that I know pretty much absolutely nothing about? I see her at the gym a couple days a week and I end up staying at the gym for longer than usual and getting a better workout because I just can't leave until she does, she is just so beautiful...but I don't know what I should do.



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25 May 2008, 1:54 pm

Gotta say hi and introduce yourself. Nothing else will happen until you do that.
Try a casual conversation with her then.
She might not mind having someone to talk to if she's there on her own, on the other hand, some women at the gym might not want men approaching them. You really won't know either way until you try talking to her though.


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25 May 2008, 8:50 pm

yes. . . say hi, introduce yourself. . . Maybe try to start a conversation on whatever training she's doing, since you know you have working out in common? If you get talking for a few minutes and it seems reasonably comfortable and natural, you could ask if she wants to be workout buddies. . . tell her she's so pretty that it'd be great motivation for you to show up. If you wait till you're sure she's comfortable with you to say that, it will almost certainly make her happy, even if she says no.

Good luck. :)


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