Is this ironic or what?

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FreedomG
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27 Jul 2008, 7:58 pm

I've been dating this girl who used to bully me a lot.
She likes me now and I like her, its weird.
I mean, she was mean in grade school.

Pundit23
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27 Jul 2008, 8:03 pm

nope, that isn't ironic by definition.

It would be closer to ironic if:
1) She had bullied you
2) Then liked you for the reasons she had bullied you.

ToadOfSteel
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27 Jul 2008, 8:04 pm

Puberty does a lot of wonderful things to the human body, doesn't it?

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27 Jul 2008, 8:06 pm

Pundit23 wrote:

nope, that isn't ironic by definition.

It would be closer to ironic if:
1) She had bullied you
2) Then liked you for the reasons she had bullied you.

He said she bullied him.

RustyShackleford
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27 Jul 2008, 8:09 pm

Sounds perfectly reasonable to me. The weirdness will pass if you find her hot, I would just roll with it :elephant:

FreedomG
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27 Jul 2008, 8:19 pm

She is hot
First thing she did was apologize for all the crap she put me through.

WonderWoman
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27 Jul 2008, 8:22 pm

FreedomG wrote:

She is hot
First thing she did was apologize for all the crap she put me through.

Kool. Sounds like she grew up.

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RustyShackleford
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27 Jul 2008, 8:23 pm

Sweet.

It's certainly an interesting situation. I guess some of it has to do with motives too, just as long as there isn't any deep seated resentment which results in you wanting to emotionally bully her it will be fine. Especially if she is hot.

Hero
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28 Jul 2008, 4:22 pm

Sounds to me like she probably always liked you in some way. The bullying was probably her angry that you didn't notice, a method to get your attention because she didn't know how to get your attention, or a reaction to complex feelings she had when around you.

FreedomG
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28 Jul 2008, 4:32 pm

No it was a reaction to the crap in her home life.

GNRfan
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28 Jul 2008, 5:27 pm

Some people think its cute to see someone they like act angry or frustrated like "awww she's got a cute angry face" . That's like the whole reason i taunt or tease some of lady friends in a friendly way lol

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