Should women become more superficial?

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Meowpurr
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14 Sep 2008, 5:45 am

Are women not picky enough about what a male must look like?

Do you see more females willing to go out with a guy who isn't all that attractive or do you see more males that are attractive with unattractive females?

I see more attractive females with not very attractive guys and no the men don't have alot of money. The male used other traits to win her over.

I sometimes wonder if for all the times women who have average to above average looks get called ugly because they aren't as hot as the lady in Vogue if men just aren't called ugly enough by females and maybe they should be? Maybe men are in need of a balance and to be told by women that they aren't good enough physically because they don't fit their ideas of physical perfection.

Do men get comments directed at them by women?

There is alot of this on this forum. ALOT where guys talk about women but how she wasn't the most hot. I think aspie males are actually even more picky and into what a female looks like more than the alpha male they have jealousy issues over.



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14 Sep 2008, 6:00 am

well lets see

Angelina Jolie has Brad pitt.... shes hot is he ugly?

Charlize Theron dating some super model guy...shes hot is he ugly?

Jessica Simpson married a teen pop sexy symbol...shes hot is he ugly?


Mandy Moore dated a teen tennis sex symbol...shes hot was he ugly?

I think ur whole point is terrible and maybe ur thinkin of TV when u see a ugly guy with a hot chick cuz in the real world i dont see it happening EVER u liar



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14 Sep 2008, 6:30 am

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Thats it, I`m never reading anything this Protossx
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14 Sep 2008, 6:37 am

Meowpurr wrote:
There is alot of this on this forum. ALOT where guys talk about women but how she wasn't the most hot. I think aspie males are actually even more picky and into what a female looks like more than the alpha male they have jealousy issues over.


I so agree. But the funny thing is that when (well at least in my occasion) you really like some one it doesn't matter what she looks like. You like her looks anyway



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14 Sep 2008, 6:44 am

I see a lot of pretty girls with average guys. I never see any guys with worse looking women.

I think a lot of people have low standards, and a lot of men only care about apperance.



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14 Sep 2008, 9:15 am

Yeah, women should be more picky looks-wise. God forbid they go for someone who makes THEM happy, rather than society's boundaries.



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14 Sep 2008, 9:28 am

God no, they're superficial enough.



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14 Sep 2008, 9:29 am

hale_bopp wrote:
I think a lot of people have low standards


Yea ahuh, so when I am totally in love with some girl because she is sweet and funny etc etc but isn't "my standard" then I can't have something with here because my standards are too low?

You don't seriously mean this right?



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14 Sep 2008, 9:39 am

Aspie males are as picky as everyone else. Everybody has preferences, what they are varies. Personally I'm not going to get caught up in an argument over who is the pickiest, because that is pretty meaningless. But nevertheless it is bad to be in denial of your preferences when you are blaming someone else.

If you see resentment and respond by more of the same you really aren't progressing much.



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14 Sep 2008, 10:12 am

WintersTale wrote:
God no, they're superficial enough.

Not all of them, but then, most people seem pretty superficial, at least most Americans. It seems to be a cultural thing.


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14 Sep 2008, 11:54 am

Its obvious most guys want a cute piece of tail and they'll put up w/the extra baggage that comes with! Girls want a fun dependable dudes who can calm them down when there distressed. My sis is that way... Lots of emotional baggage but she is married to a fat dude who puts up with it. ha Tick for tat haha



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14 Sep 2008, 12:00 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
I see a lot of pretty girls with average guys. I never see any guys with worse looking women.

That is a contradictory statement. non?



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14 Sep 2008, 12:18 pm

MrMark wrote:
WintersTale wrote:
God no, they're superficial enough.

Not all of them, but then, most people seem pretty superficial, at least most Americans. It seems to be a cultural thing.


I agree. Most Americans seem to have an obsession with looks currently.

I suppose it wasn't fair for me to say that. Not all women are shallow. It just seems like a fair sized amount of them judge men on looks before they get to know their personality.

0_equals_true wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
I see a lot of pretty girls with average guys. I never see any guys with worse looking women.

That is a contradictory statement. non?


I think hale meant good looking guys with average women.



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14 Sep 2008, 12:26 pm

0_equals_true wrote:
Aspie males are as picky as everyone else.


Oh, no doubt. We actually care about the personality of women, while most NT men don't...



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14 Sep 2008, 12:29 pm

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