The sad irony of our autistic and shy guy brethern, the girls we like deplore us, but the girls we care nothing for adore us. The girls we don't like are just as desperate as we are, and in very much the same boat we are, so in such desperation, they are looking for the comfort they never found in the kinds of guys they sought. In our own right we are as petty and superficial as the girls we go after, such humorous irony.