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14 Nov 2005, 7:13 pm

I am just wondering if anyone else would date a member of the same gender?I am bisexual and my girlfriend just broke up with me(although we plan to get back together).I have had several crushes on people that were girls like me and if any of them were bisexual/gay or felt the same way I would have asked them out.There was also my other girlfriend but I wasn't exzactly in love with her so I broke up with her after a month or 2.

Would YOU date someone of the same sex?If so ,then why?


-SpaceCase :)

PS.Also,have you EVER done that?


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14 Nov 2005, 7:15 pm

I'm more likely to date girls, but if I liked said person of the same gender enough, then yeah, I'd probably date him.



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14 Nov 2005, 7:23 pm

I'd date a member of my same gender, if I liked that person...



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14 Nov 2005, 7:24 pm

True love is such a rare and wonderful thing that I will accept it in whatever form it appears.



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14 Nov 2005, 7:55 pm

I'm not sexually attracted to males, therefore I wouldn't date a male.



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14 Nov 2005, 8:07 pm

I don't think I could date someone of the same sex. Much in all as I respect other people who make that choice, I just don't think I could. It wouldn't feel right...


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14 Nov 2005, 8:08 pm

I'm genetically heterosexual, so no


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14 Nov 2005, 8:16 pm

of course i wouldnt mind dating the same sex. as long as that person liked me i would and if she was hot.



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14 Nov 2005, 9:03 pm

generally i like guys, so no. but if there was an exception then i might...



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14 Nov 2005, 9:21 pm

No. And my wife would not appreciate it either.


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14 Nov 2005, 10:01 pm

I've only been attracted to males thus far so I think it unlikely, even if I wasn't dating a guy right now.

((OK, so I flirt like crazy with a female friend of mine, but that's only because it annoys the hell out of her and I'm an obnoxious a**hole.))



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15 Nov 2005, 4:57 am

I don't know, to be honest.

I'm still really confused in that area. I know i'm attracted to guys, and sometimes I've been attracted to a female, but I don't know if I would want to go all the way with one? :(



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15 Nov 2005, 12:54 pm

lowfreq50 wrote:
I'm not sexually attracted to males, therefore I wouldn't date a male.


Strangely, I am sexually attracted to males, but I wouldn't date one either. There's no romantic attraction.

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15 Nov 2005, 4:43 pm

Dating? Sure, why not.

Sex? Maybe if you're a good looking transsexual, otherwise it isn't very likely. :)

Love? Everytime he reaches a double double I'm in love with Tim Duncan. So, uhmmmm......yeah, but in a non-sexual way.



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15 Nov 2005, 4:48 pm

Serissa wrote:
I've only been attracted to males thus far so I think it unlikely, even if I wasn't dating a guy right now.

((OK, so I flirt like crazy with a female friend of mine, but that's only because it annoys the hell out of her and I'm an obnoxious a**hole.))


i do that w/ my friend too!! ! well yeah last summer we were known as the dorky lesbians, and she loves pda w/ ANYONE (i have so much respect for her for being so comfortable w/ herself)



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15 Nov 2005, 5:56 pm

There's no sexual attraction for me, so no.