Aspies wuv cuddles!

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So rumor says. But what about backrubs? More than cuddles? Now you can vote! :D

I like both!! !

I guess so, on paper, but I'm not comfortable with most people doing this. A couple of girls have leant on me just because they like leaning on people, only to back away because I would start shivering or twitching in discomfort.

Backrubs and some cuddling when I feel like it but backrubs.

Back rubs, cuddling, and foot massages, thats my specialty.

"most people" doing this would seem kind of invasive to me. if you are with someone you're comfortable with, and you're expecting it, then which would you prefer? ;)

although what people's adverse reactions are is pretty interesting...

usually i can't fall asleep if i'm touching someone. cuddles just don't seem to work well for some reason. backrubs, i see as "safe".

I'm not all that sure if I'd like cuddles from anyone, that's the thing. Maybe if I had a girlfriend, but that would be new for me. When I was a kid my mother would give me cuddles but that time has long passed.

I like to give and receive both!

I love cuddles more than backrubs, but my lass does give a hell of a backrub.

Cuddles are usually better

Cuddles all the way! I'm unusually sensitive in my back.........if someone were to give me a back rub I'd probably buck and elbow them in the face.

Same here. Im more than happy to give backrubs but I dont enjoy receiving them. But yes, I LOVE to cuddle with women; gf or not.

I'm too ticklish for backrubs.

I know what a cuddle is, but won't vote until you say exactly what a "backrub" is.

The emotional feeling of holding a woman in my arms (hell it doesn't even matter who she is, just as long as she is, in fact, a "she") is something that cannot be matched in my mind... the few times I've been able to do so are some of the happiest moments in my life... I get the idea that it even trumps sex (although i'm a virgin so I cant say for sure until I've acquired that particular experience...)

I'm not particularly fond of backrubs...not theraputic ones anyway.
It looks like I share this sensitivity.

I can't give backrubs anymore...it feels like I'm sucking the pain out of people and it all accumulates in my hands.