Criteria for your perfect partner

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That's absurd, LPP, to make such an assumption. There are those who will 'trade-in' partners for "upgrades" over the years, yes... and there are those who make a connection and realize that their preconceptions have little to nothing to do with the realities of what they want and desire. What I find interesting is that on that list... all the superficial qualities were the ones that didn't matter - it was how she was treated and how she feels that was most important to her. Also, did you happen to note that these were her childhood expectations?


M.

^^ maku, it's not necessary to "white knighting" for every "offensive" post I make , I was just curious and asked her that question.

She's adult and she'll know how to reply and how to defend herself. The question wasn't directed to you ,Sir.

So stop playing the advocate of all members.

*chuckle* Oh, LPP... if I were to comment on all the absurdities, I'd have no time for anything else. In this instance, you used the presumptive 'won't you' in asking the question, creating inherent bias in the question. Apparently you think that I have some delight in following your antics, which is not the case... merely that when I encounter things, I comment. There is no desire to be an advocate for others - one must learn to tend one's own garden, in my opinion - but that doesn't mean that I don't have an opinion or observation. If you have a problem with that, than I encourage you to ignore what I have to say or simply move on. I did not pose to answer any question for her, but pointed out where in her post she mentioned that these were the ideas of a child, and observe that in her relationships it was the trivial and superficial that was let by the wayside while the feelings and innate qualities remained. Try getting out of that defensive posture awhile... you might find it a little easier.


M.

what? why would she be looking at the dream guy when she has chosen the one for her? If you aren't LOOKING to trade up then you don't even notice them because it is good at home.

Merle

My perfect girl, Jessica Hawkins, nuff said, I liked her for like five years and I ain't stopping now lol, even if she never will even consider I exist

That she accepts me for who I am.

I most propably will not ask her out the first time, I most propably will be too sacred to touch her hand, make the first move, first kiss, will be s&*^ scared of making a mistake, know I do make comments that may seem offensive, Do not always hear well, my eyes wander.... I can go on, oh and most importantly can forgive me for the things I do, not intentionally.

But I am loyal, honest, open, lie very little if at all, have a big heart, tell stories to share not to brag, care for them and genuinly worry about them.

If she exists, pm me.

well, this sounds like me! I am 58 years old, a bit over weight and fond of my apartment, cat and job. I have a keen sense of humor and am very affectionate.

so, see? you do have more criteria for your dream woman.

Merle

Okay. Prove it. In Colorado Springs, Conservative Christians WERE bigots.

In no particular order:


- Open-minded in general

- Into alternative music/scene, but not so much to ignore other genres

- Intelligent, at least at my level or above

- Funny/humorous

- Likes animals

- Big eyes and symmetrical face

- Skinny/slim and toned (been out with a bigger guy before.. don't enjoy it or find it attractive to be honest)

- Longish hair/not skinhead or shaved

- At least my height (5' 6'')

- Loyal

- Affectionate

- Aware and understanding of mental and neurological disorders (non-discriminatory)

- Geeky

- Kinky

- And most of all, patient.

As you read when you signed up to become a member here, Hurricane_Delta, this is a support site and we do not allow personal attacks. Keep your opinions of a philosophy in general terms and do not attack a member personally with that philosophy.



Merle
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Arts - music, writing and drama mostly. How about you? Are you at uni?

open-minded
likes to travel
active
attractive (to me, I have weird taste)
nice
smart
respectful
faithful
honest
non-religious
not conservative (politically)
does not mind (is not intimidated) by a woman who is career oriented and independent, but who still wants love and a family.


I have never met him yet...still waiting....

sense of humor
attentive
has his own interests
thinks I am the greatest thing since sliced bread
internally strong
intelligent
principled
lots of fresh ideas
trustworthy
reliable
intellectually curious


Merle

I graduated from uni at the end of last year. I studied music at the QLD Conservatorium, majoring in composition.

...oh, and of course - Emo! Emo! Emo!

whoa, reading this I thought "hell, I'm someone's perfect woman!" why did you have to be a girl...? LOL