"5 Reasons Why You Guys Are Still Single"

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26 Nov 2008, 6:02 pm

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Do you... have Asperger's Syndrome?


If I read an article like the one for the NT men, but instead it's written for NT women and I came across that question, this would be my answer: Yeah, I have it. What are you gonna do about it? Run in the opposite direction because you're afraid that you might catch my AS through cross-contamination? Like I said, I have it and I was born with it. Deal with it because that's one thing about me that ain't ever gonna change whether you like it or not!"



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26 Nov 2008, 10:56 pm

Tiny and obvious factors.

The reason I'm single is I don't try. The reason I don't try is part cynicism and resentment, part fear, part laziness.


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27 Nov 2008, 4:00 am

who comes up with these lists? was it ment to be serious? i doubt it haha


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27 Nov 2008, 9:39 am

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Just saw this article, thought it might be helpful.


Oh yay, human idiocy!

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Am I the only guy who is sick of these recycled articles chastising guys for not doing everything exactly right according to some writer's arbitrary criteria?


Well flaunted human idiocy displeases me but there is really nothing one can do about it, they have freedom of speech as well, so they are free to flaunt their opinion irregardless of how stupid it may be.

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Of course, it's not like the women could be at fault for anything, you know...


Well of course not, wimminz are teh perfect-O!

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as a past practicer of self-pity -- where does it get you? Nowhere.


Neither does "manifest destiny", I was treated like crap when I was good and I'm treated like crap now and if I delude myself I'll still be treated like crap, sorry but "believing" in people doesn't magically make them not a**holes, it just makes you a fool.

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and just except that you're going to love yourself just for trying,


Sorry I don't hate myself, I hate everyone else.

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regardless of the results, you'll find confidence -- and that will draw women to you.


Unless society has deemed you unnacceptable in which your "confidence" is zero.

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That's very true. Some guys -- including myself, in the past -- project a very strong "Let me down easy" vibe,


I project a "Show me your scum just like I believe, human" vibe, I've never been let down.

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which interested girls will internally react with, "Really? But you're doing so well,"


More like "uninterested" girls who are trying to be "nice".

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So, don't project a self-fulfilling prophecy of failure!


LOL, "I can't prove my innocence, only you can do that!" says the murderer to his victims family when they asked for proof of his innocence.

Human illogic at it's best, trump your vice as virtue and prove your enemies innocence.

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I know exactly why I'm still single


I do too, it's because girls don't like me and there is nothing I can do about it, and I'm not about to delude myself, if one says I'm wrong than the proof lies on them and not me despite human illogic.

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Another "women are able to sense negative vibes from non-confident men" myth. Almost every feminine magazine shows women as beings with supernatural sensing and mind-reading powers who are able to smell and sense lack of confidence or desperation in men from miles.

That of course ...very untrue.


It's part that and part "manifest destiny", both illogical ideas.

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Dude, you don't understand women.


He understands women just fine.

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They pick up signals you don't even know you're sending!


They "pick up" what they assume are signals, when in reality they are nothing.

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Your unconscious mind is communicating with her, explaining to her who you are, the whole time you're talking with her in person.


Sorry I don't believe in outdated Freudian ideas.

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If you approach a girl at a party with confidence and friendliness (like JohnHopkins did, as he mentioned in my "Pep-Talk" thread), you're likely to get a good response.


Or she'll laugh at you, or she'll "slum" it and have some fun at your expense.

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may still not be your type,


Translation: She doesn't think you're HAWT!

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I still don't understand this non-chalant approach to getting women,


It's because people want SECKS NAOH!