I have the oppurtunity

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to hook up with a rich guy but for some thing is telling me not to.
He said he will look after and he has lots of money. I am just on the disability support pension and finicially it is a struggle.
What do you think I should do. Tell him to leave me alone or go with it?

I guess if you are happy with living with
a sugardaddy and he treats you well it
shouldn`t be a huge problem. Some are
very against this sort of thing, but i think
if it makes both happy then ok with me.
Have met women who live like this and
those who like it really really like it.

If you`re in doubt in any way and dont know
him well, then i would suggest dropping it or
at least wait and think it through - dont dive
head first into some power-thing with someone
starting to claim you owe them something or
suddenly is your mortal enemy if things dont
work out later down the line. Just be careful,
and happy. Good luck and safety first
Theres alot of crazys out there but there are
some nice one also.

One important thing. Ask yourself and him why
does he want to do it if you dont already know
for sure. You need to know his motives and to
be sure! thats why he`s doing it. And he`s got
cash. That means if he the type that gets mad
at you if things dont work out or you piss him
off, then you are probably screwed. He has the
means the make your life hell if he wants to,
remember that.

The heart matters more than the mind..... Hence, "Follow your heart"

Not ALL rich people are swindling scumbags... but since you haven't described any of this guy's other qualities, I couldn't tell you...

It never hurts to do some investigating on him. See if he has a criminal record, check his credit history, see if he is married.

I was just thinking...i read he have told
you that he is willing to/wants to take care
of you and that he have the means to do it.
If i assume thats true then its alot about why
he wants to do it- theres obviously something
about you he likes. So if he`s for real, is a
nice guy and you like him, then its not the
worst thing that can happen is it if it
is something you are comfortable and
happy with, thats important. Thats the
most important thing here, what you want.

But as mentioned, know him well or get to know
him well before agreeing to anything. I think
people in these sort of relationships have to be
nice people at heart for it to work - because money
is a huge powershifter, a real sh***y situation would
be ending up with someone who uses that he can
sort of "cut you off", that can be hard to get out
of. But if you run across someone who wants you
well, wishes you the best and have no ownership
issues, then it sounds not too bad in many ways,
if assuming that you like him. If its all about his
money for you, you like his wallet but not him
as a guy, then it can sound much less comfortable
in many ways.

What is it that is telling you not to?
Is it that you don't really like him?

Check him out really, really good. Also, have a back up plan in case he cuts you off and throws you out. I am very skeptical when an NT wants a relationship with me. I have been used many times.

Unless he's proposing marriage and an iron-clad prenup, you are only setting yourself up to be used, abused, and then kicked to the curb when another cutie comes along.

Be careful. Get everything in writing, and do nothing for him until the "I Dos" are said and the wedding license is signed and on file with the county clerk.