Girls who mess with your head...

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Do you guys have those experiences of girls who mess with your head? Like today for example a girl who I've known for a while now always messes with me and I just get so awkward. So she just laughes and calls me adorable... which is not the best s**t to hear. Of course this girl flirts with guys, and it just makes me so nervous. lol

It's called "Playing Head Games" and it's a method whereby they determine how to get a specific behavior out of you. In this case, she seems to delight in provoking you into a confused and flustered behavior mode.

And "Cute" may be feminese shorthand for "Gotcha Again!"

yes I know what you mean

wich is the reason I build a thick social wall around me and sort of isolated my emotional self in the inner sanctum in wich nearly none have ever come...but thats just me

Has anyone ever seen "The Wall." Not implying anything, but that was a seriously messed up movie.

That movie is pretty trippy. The stage show sounded cool, though (before my time). They actually have people slowly building a white brick wall on the stage during the first half of the album and the seal the band off so you can't see them. Then they play the animated parts that were in the movie on the brick wall and eventually break it down at the appropriate point on the album.
I love Pink Floyd.

Is that the version staged in Berlin's Potsdamer Platz and released as an album in 1990? Anyway, this just got seriously off-topic...

Back to the head games thing...

I have only met one girl that has never IMO messed with my head. Most do in some way. They get some kind of sick thrill from it.

I can see why they enjoy playing head games. It's really effortless for them, I imagine. I've never run into a girl that's really into playing games, and if I did, I'd probably try to counter them myself to really get under their skin.

I call it fighting emotionally. Suddenly you're boiling mad, then you get hit with 'oh! Male Rage! Toxic, not allowed!' Gets me going sometimes. Sometimes I can 'fight back', and that just gets her mad, and 'pack your bags, you're going on a guilt trip!'....sigh...

Nearly all women do this to some extent as part of a grooming process to determine romantic suitability. They like to use indirect methods to figure out your attitude and opinion on things—to catch you off guard so that you're not just telling them what you think they want to hear. They like to gauge how well you think on your feet, how diplomatic you can be, etc. it's part of the courtship process.

Any women that screws with my head and is not upfront and honest with me, I walk. I tell them upfront I need peopel to be totally straght forward with me and never send mixed signals, say A but do B, ect.. But they always do.

A person that does that to soemone when you tell them it will only confuse you has no respect for you and is not worth having anyway.

Men mess with people's heads too.

Whoever said that they don't was lying.

I hate it when people call me cute. Its like their talking down to me.

Isn't that cute? He's flustered by flirty girls. That IS so kind of adorable! (Just kidding)

How do you know she is messing with your head. MBE she likes you. It is kind of cute when a guy is flustered by flirting.