I've figured out my sexuality.

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12 Dec 2005, 9:55 pm

I am a lesbian.I figured that out today.I don't believe that I've ever had any real romantic feelings towards guys and plus I have had alot of bad experiances with boys.I am VERY attracted to girls and I have had romantic feelings towards girls.I do not mind being friends with guys but having sex or going out with a boy absolutely repulses me.I hope that no one is scared of me now...please don't hate me...

-SpaceCase

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Morlock
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12 Dec 2005, 9:59 pm

It's good you've come to a firm conclusion. Don't EVER let anybody tell you you made the wrong decision.

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12 Dec 2005, 10:08 pm

I still want to see pics.

Someone was bound to say it. :oops:

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12 Dec 2005, 10:09 pm

SpaceCase wrote:

Just remember, depending on your age, this might not be the last time you decide. But anyways, I bet it's refreshing to have a good concrete idea what you feel, eh?

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13 Dec 2005, 12:39 am

Are there some boys which you find attractive, but very few, and with much higher standards that you have for women?

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13 Dec 2005, 12:40 am

Being gay/straight/bisexual is something your born as (just like being an aspie) no one should hate you for it, and if they do it is thier own problem, not yours.

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13 Dec 2005, 2:18 am

Hey good work on finding out I wish I knew what sexuality I was! It's great that you've come to know though!

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13 Dec 2005, 2:37 am

I'm 20 and I know I like guys, and am kinda attracted to girls, but just being attracted to a gender doesn't mean you like them like that.. i'm probably straight and confused, or bi-curious at the most.

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13 Dec 2005, 3:11 am

SpaceCase wrote:

I am a lesbian. [...snip....] I hope that no one is scared of me now...please don't hate me...

SpaceCase, I hope you don't really feel this way (that people might be scared of you or hate you because of your sexual preference)! Being a lesbian is great (just like being a gay man or straight or bi or a or anything else.....the more flavors the better :-)

). Be happy for yourself!

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13 Dec 2005, 6:04 am

Hey, so long as you can still cook and clean, you're fine with me. :wink:

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13 Dec 2005, 8:37 am

There's no reason for anybody to be scared of you or hate you, and it's good to have that sorted out in your head, so yay for you having figured it out.

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13 Dec 2005, 12:44 pm

airbikecop wrote:

I still want to see pics.

Someone was bound to say it. :oops:

seconded

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13 Dec 2005, 1:52 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

but just being attracted to a gender doesn't mean you like them like that..

Wha? that makes no sense to me...

I know that I'm not gay because I've never popped a boner while looking at a guy... I'm well aware that girls don't have that litmus test but don't you have some other kind of way that you can know what you find sexually attractive?

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13 Dec 2005, 3:57 pm

SpaceCase wrote:

Why would anyone want to hate a nice girl such as yourself for being gay is beyond me.

Sod 'em, I say.

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13 Dec 2005, 5:53 pm

I'm honestly not sure.

SpaceCase
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13 Dec 2005, 6:11 pm

Thanks for being so supportive,guys.Y'all made me feel really good about myself...for once...

-SpaceCase

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