Jsmitheh wrote:
Cut off all communication with her for awhile, dont evne look at her so she knows your not stalking her and if she wants to talk to you again.. then its all good.
I've done that before but she still didn't talk to me, but she did spontaneously hug me in the hallway without saying a word about a week before Winter Break.
Here's the story from that day from one of my posts on another forum:
Then today, my friend (her ex) and I were waiting near his locker, because he was going to introduce me to this other girl that can help me with my AS problems. Amazingly this happens:
I see the girl that I like in front of him and she just keeps looking at me for a few seconds and waves to us both and then she suddenly comes up with a hugging motion and me and my friend both think it's for him, but she pushes him aside and says no and then gives ME a hug. The first time that she has ever hugged me as a matter of fact.
I used to have to compete with her ex all the time last year when talking to her and I couldn't because she always seemed to like him much more. Now, it seems I've taken the lead. I think he's jealous and wants me to stop liking her.