The Competition: On Quashing Them

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The field of dating, relationships, and romance is perhaps one of the most competitive aspects of life. Not only are you competing against other guys, but you're also competing against these other guys through the filter of a woman's perception of the ideal. If you cannot immediately and sustainably attract a woman, why not go on the offensive? Attack (metaphorically, of course, need I disclaim that I do not condone violence?) the competition mercilessly. Think about it logically: If you were the only man around, wouldn't all the women whose hormones and emotions are pushing them to romance and sexuality be much more inclined to you? Exactly, and that's why you've got to eliminate (again, metaphorically, folks!) the competition.

The surest route to defeating NTs is to attack their reputation since this is their lifeblood. Humiliation, questioning of their sexual orientation, etc. are perfect. With their reputation in tatters, they may behave erratically, furthering the downward spiral to your benefit. The idea is to give yourself every advantage over the competition possible. If this sounds harsh or even brutal, remember that it's necessary if experiences proves that you cannot attract a mate by merits alone.

Discuss, and don't take it too seriously.

It is not enough to win the fair maiden's hand; the competition must also be humiliated, crushed, and consigned to social oblivion.

I, for one, am attracted to aspies. There are some women who don't go for NTs.

It is an approach, but antithetical to my own.


M.

The danger is in your methods and intentions being obvious, and the plan backfiring. Nobody likes an a**hole, women included.
Well, at least no one likes an unsubtle a**hole.

Alas, grasshopper, it is the woman who does the choosing.... a little attention in the right way towards a woman will often get you some reciprocal attention, but if you push too hard or too fast, you can land on your kiester...

Experience and all the seduction guides of the Internets show the former is a consequence of the latter.

I wish I could remember where I heard this: "It is the man who makes the choice, but she who does the choosing." From an older age, but a curious statement still.


M.

I don't want to stoop to their level. I'd rather be single and keep my morals intact.

This sounds like WAY too much work!

This is sexual Machiavellianism. It is a well-established and old sexual strategy. It is what some women do a lot .

(this post is currently being rewritten. I fell into too personal & personally revelatory voice while writing it, without paying enough attention. I have to concentrate to write, and that is difficult w/personally upsetting material. The sanitized version may be posted here later. Sorry...)

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Why the hell would any AS dive into the sexually and personally impoverished world of the head gamers and sexual Machiavellians of NTs? The only NTs who do those kinds of things are the losers, anyway.

Last edited by ephemerella on 17 Dec 2008, 2:25 pm, edited 16 times in total.

""The surest route to defeating NTs is to attack their reputation since this is their lifeblood. Humiliation, questioning of their sexual orientation, etc. are perfect. With their reputation in tatters, they may behave erratically, furthering the downward spiral to your benefit. The idea is to give yourself every advantage over the competition possible. If this sounds harsh or even brutal, remember that it's necessary if experiences proves that you cannot attract a mate by merits alone.""

Not sure if this is a joke or not - but i hope it is.
To attack someone else and talk s**t about them
to make yourself look good is just not something
i do and i hope no one else does ever. Thats just
selfish and mean and i want no part of it. Someone
making themselfes look big by stepping on others
is a piece of s**t in my eyes and they better stay
a long way away from me. You cant make
yourself look good with badmouthing others because
doing it means that you are an a**hole and a real
s**thead and that just doesn`t look good. And, its
childish.

""If this sounds harsh or even brutal, remember that it's necessary""

Honestly, you are an idiot if you belive that this is true. Jeez
i have to assume that this is a bad joke i dont get, it has to
be

I meet women at the rate of approximately 1 every three to four months. That means, in a year's time, I will have had significant interaction with just 3-4 single-ish young women (offline). My job, my errands, and the places I go do not bring me into contact with very many women my age for some reason. I live in a condo complex with a large portion being not much older than me but usually married or just too busy with their job (I literally have barely met anyone except those I've met at the community pool and by chance in the parking lot). I e'er venture outside my familiar, my comfort zone to in the hopes of meeting more people. I've tried activity groups, community college adult extension courses (but those people are too old by decades!), and even bars and nightclubs (not knowing which ones have the "buzz" since I am so socially out of the loop). The past five years of efforts (including three in college, where there were considerably more women my age) resulted in only one date (and that was about a month and a half ago). Women apparently have a considerable pool of potential mates to select from whereas I go for months at a stretch without having any significant communication with available young women.

Nearly all women I have had significant interaction with play the head games (which I consider as such things as saying one has a boyfriend yet agreeing to get together for dinner, continuing to express enthusiastic interest while needing to reschedule many times, expressing blunt sexual interest while not following through, expressing she hates you when in fact her actions strongly suggest otherwise, turning the date into a rant about her ex and then dropping baffling clues like how she likes the title of some painting called "Seduction," making up a false persona online even when you make it clear you know it's her as you had just talked to her offline and it's her same screen name to begin with—I can keep going) such that I also deem it necessary to have a counter-strategy at hand for the various rouses women will throw at a guy.

The first sentence of the OP is 100% Correct. There is competition for mates just like there is competition for jobs. This is how the game is played when people have the freedom to choose their partners. I said it before and I'll say it again......It is not enough to succeed, others must FAIL. I dont like quotes much but that is one that really happens to be TRUE.
The only advice I can give is that you have to manipulate women by pushing their emotional buttons and if you fancy a particular individual you have to figure out what she specifically wants and responds positively to and make her think that you can offer her something that (the)other guys around her dont have.

99% of the failures come from people who have the habit of making excuses.