Why am i dreaming about my ex boyfriends

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Ok this might be a bit of a weird post, but its freaking me out.

Ok recently i had a dream about my last boyfriend. i love him sooo much. anyway i dreamed that he turned up at my house and we were basicly like we were before. it were a great dream. i swear i cud feel his touch. i could feel everything. it was completely wonderful n felt so real tjht wen i woke up it took ages to realise it was a dream and i was like where is he? kissing in tht dream was perfect.

Now it doesnt take a genius to know wht that dream meant, it knew it ment i loved him n longed for him. However, the other night i had a dream abut my other ex boyfrend, the guy before him who treated me like crap, and i never had any love for. i was only ever with that guy because i was lonely and felt nobody else wud want me. the dream about him was that we went to a slipknot concert together, but nothing actualy happend between us in the dream. we just went to the concert and hanged out. in the dream i cudnt find anyone else to go to the concert with me so it had to be him, or i couldnt go, ad slipknot are one of my faveourite bands.

can you tell me what it means to dream about your ex boyfrends like this, expeially as the dreams werent that far apart. i was happy in both dreams. but the happyness i felt was different.
help needed please

thank you

it could be it's the end of the year, with New Year's coming, you could be reminiscing. Maybe your current relationships aren't fulfilling.

meh i guess so..
i dont have a current relashionship though

It's probably just your brain rehashing stuff. Happens to me all the time.

you may have some unresolved issues

Dreams should not be taken literally, I wouldn't go as far to say unresolved issues.

Perhaps she will stop thinking of him so much over time. Things you think about can often be in dreams, saying she has unresolved issues though makes it sound like she's in the wrong.

not literaly no. but there is a meaning in each dream. ask any psych.

what exactly are the dreams about?

It sounds to me like you're lonely... more than anything else, the fact that one is alone can bring low even the most psychologically independant aspie...

I think you pretty much explained both dreams. One ex you still love, the other you don't. In either case, you miss having someone. The dreams seem to represent your current feelings for and about them.

I wouldn't take potential hidden meaning in dreams too seriously, but there doesn't seem to be anything hidden in these.

If i am right you're the girl who said you wanted to date someone really badly or something, so my guess is you simply wish for someone to be there for you, and since your ex used to, or something along those lines you dream of him

Yes well thanks every1...
meh i was thinking it cud just be coz ive been talking to the last 1 alot recently and weve been getting on really well...
The 1 befoere sent me a email last week Saying 'why dont we talk anymore i still love and care for you'.... Lies lol but i although i replied he hasnt repled back.! !
I think that may be why i dreamt about them. because of the influence in my life now, and the influence they have had in my life..... its got a lot to do with my state of mind i relaise that now!
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Dreams can be expressions of regret, of emotions you still have, of your subconscious...

Or they can be random BS like f*****g your sister or a goat.

Dreams don't HAVE to mean anything at all.

lol haha tht was pretyy funny.
true though

Exactly. There's no need to let dreams - things which happen all night every night and can mean anything, we just forget most of them - have such an impact on you. Just keep on truckin'.

all dreams mean something...that f**king you sister would be symbolic of something else. or it could be literal
even if you cannot seem to understand it, it'll mean something