Class and the results

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-So happy New Years from the ROK
-Anyway I went to the New Year's Eve Party, which was almost a lot of fun. Drinks, music, dancing, smoky bar, girls you name it they got it.
-So drinking and dancing, I'm busting my groove out on the dance floor. Now I'm good. I'
ve had years of ballroom classes, and even some break dancing. So to make a long story short, I'm good at attracting attention. Add in I'm the tallest guy there...and one of the best dressed. Well you get the idea.
-First, some slobby over weight guy keeps asking in a loud voice "is that guy gay?" over and over again. Well I'm not, but he wanted all the women to think I was so they'd leave me alone I guess.
-Second some girls, rather hot I'll add, decide to start banging their butt into my crotch. Now I'm not really sure of where or what to do about this. See title.
-Although I like 'physical' contact of a sexual nature, the middle of a dance floor is neither the time nor the place. It really bothers me to see random couples grinding on each other in clubs and stuff, which is a reason I usually avoid such places anyway. Dancing is not having sex standing up with your clothes on guys, I'm sorry.
-The problem with me is it gets all back to 'class.' I can't respect people who get drunk and horny and act like idiots. Get drunk, great, fall over and hurt yourself, fine. But when I see people of either gender make a total gross display of public affection (it's drunken lust, not affection) I just get pissed(USA) at them.
-Anyway disgusted I quickly excuse myself to go get totally plastered. Women are being rubbed everywhich way. And then go to some other guy. I don't get it, what the hell is the point of going to some bar, rubbing against all these men, and then going home alone?! The logic escapes me.
-So in a nutshell, how can you pick up girls while not being a horny idiot?

talk to them at the bar
which i cant do anyway cos i can only talk about topics of interest to me. small talk is beyond me
so i guess at the end of the night the only way i can pick up is by being a "hoorny idiot" on the dance floor

This post is interesting, because I also love to go to clubs to dance, but I hate it when people think they can rub up against me because of it. I agree with you entirely; dancing is not a drunken display of lust.

It really pisses me off that a person (even a person who is a good dancer and attracts attention - I also attract attention, not because I'm a good dancer, but because I dance full out and really use my whole body and get into it) can't go to a club and thoroughly enjoy dancing there without having a horde of drunken people trying rub up against them or make out with them.

I think what you encountered was jealousy; you had the girls dancing, and he didn't... The crotch bumping was probably their way of 'checking', but it doesn't mean anything more than teasing (depending on the level of alchohol...

Wouldn't hurt to try, though.

So a girl was into you, and you're asking how to pick up girls? It sounds to me like you do a pretty good job of it, you just need to do it on a night where less of them are drunk.

stupidity will always embrace some of humanity, my friend. Although I can't answer your question about finding good girls without looking like a honry perv (I myself have a hard time finding any as well), I can tell you it is not wise to surrond yourself with fools and girls who don't know the meaning of sexual pride and discretion. A girl who spreads her legs like peanut butter or who tries to get you horny when you hardly know her obviously is a slut and doesn't know the meaning of self respect, otherwise these girls would act more maturely.

The fat guy was just a moron, and the root of all insults is either jealousy or insecurity in my opinion. Why else would he make fun of you if you're well dressed and a good dancer? He can't compare with that, and thus in his utter stupidity and insecurity, he insuinated that you were gay to reduce your social value to make himself more appealing. Stupid, but true.

I thought I'd just put my two cents in.

The slu*ty girls may have STDs as well so be careful, lol.