Presents for Him on valentines day..

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28 Jan 2009, 12:25 pm

as its coming up valentines day i was wondering has anyone got any idea what to get a lad on valentines day?

Is a card and box of chocolates okay do you think..? i was also thinkin of going out for a meal

I havent spent valentines day with my boyfriend before as we got together may last year

Jess.

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28 Jan 2009, 12:28 pm

I guess you are the one who has the best answer for this question since you are the one who knows him best here. Try to sit with yourself and think what he likes most , that would help you much better than reading random suggestions on an online forum.

Good luck.

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28 Jan 2009, 12:29 pm

Porn...

sorry, just kidding. :lol:

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28 Jan 2009, 12:44 pm

Well if he's in any way a typical guy (and assuming you have sex), then get yourself some cute lingere and wear it for him. He'll love it.

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28 Jan 2009, 12:44 pm

LePetitPrince wrote:

Aw i guess so.. ill just ask him instead

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28 Jan 2009, 12:58 pm

A card and chocolates is too... generic. IMHO. Try to think about what he likes. For example, my boyfriend likes Doctor Who, Transformers, various bands, etc, so I try to get him gifts related to those interests, as that shows him that I was actually thinking about him and what he would like, rather than just getting him something random just for the sake of giving him something.
His birthday is just before Valentines day, so I've been focusing on his Birthday mostly (which I think I'm finally done shopping for) as far as buying gifts. I did get him this weird book about Zombies already, which I'm saving for Valentine's day, because in my messed up mind, that's more appropriate for Valentine's day. lol

Last Valentine's day, I had just started dating some other guy like less than a week before Valentine's day, so I just got him the old standby chocolates, cheap-o stuffed animal, and a card, and only because he said he got me something. Since we had only just started dating, I didn't really care. But my boyfriend I'm with now, we've been together since April, and I actually love him, so I want to show him that I actually care enough to think about what he would like.

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28 Jan 2009, 1:01 pm

get him a fun night... in bed...

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28 Jan 2009, 1:05 pm

Rain_Bird wrote:

Well i bought him everything he wanted n liked on christmas and his birthday as they were both near each other , thats why i thought chocolates

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28 Jan 2009, 1:16 pm

Notice all the guys are saying sex? :lol:

A card and food like chocolate or cookies is probably good.

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28 Jan 2009, 1:44 pm

Butterflair wrote:

Notice all the guys are saying sex? :lol:

Correction: I said "porn." I don't know if you remember, but the OP started a thread about it awhile ago...

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28 Jan 2009, 1:49 pm

Well i asked my boyfriend just now what he would like and he said "you dont have to get me anything, a kiss and a hug is all i want"

but i still like to get him something tho

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28 Jan 2009, 2:25 pm

A good meal and a blowjob.

Also remember that Valentine's Day is a two-way deal.

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28 Jan 2009, 5:39 pm

Take him to a high-end restaurant that serves his favorite food. Unless he's a vegetarian, you usually can't go wrong with a nice steakhouse, but let him choose what he likes. Volunteer to be the designated driver, so he can try as many exotic beers as he wants to (without getting intoxicated, of course). When you get home, put on sexy lingerie, and have some hot, mind-blowing sex that'll leave him smiling for days.

Now THAT'S a man's perfect Valentine's Day.

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28 Jan 2009, 5:46 pm

An Amazon.com gift certificate

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