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Emor
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28 Jan 2009, 6:03 pm

Okay, I have Aspergers Syndrome. So does a guy I really like and have known for most of my life.
Now before I go into detail, I'd like to state my age, that being 13, as I've found some people feel rather insulted that they've wasted their time talking to a 13 year old, so, yeah, if you don't want to talk to a 13 year old, this thread probably isn't for you :P.
So, anyway, I'd just like to know coming from other people's views with Aspergers Syndrome, if you ever unintentionally flirt with someone?
My friends have told me countless times I'm flirting with men, and I honestly didn't know I was, but he seems to be doing the obvious things like kicking my leg under the table, and I've asked some of my friends if several incident were flirting or just a normal social gesture, and a lot of them have said it is flirting.
Problem is I don't really want to have to explain about Aspergers, and I don't think he'd appreciate me telling everyone anyway, since he told me about 2 months after I got diagnosed(11 years old) that he had it too at the dinner table.
If you do, how badly have you done it, and you have done obvious things?
Thank you for any responses I receive,
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28 Jan 2009, 6:08 pm

Guys think I'm flirting with them all the time (once I threw a rubber at the back of a guy's head cos me and my friend hate him for what he did to our other friend, long story, and now he thinks I like him), but this one time I actually WAS trying to flirt with someone, and the guy didn't even notice! Everyone ELSE noticed, of course. Typical! :lol:


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28 Jan 2009, 6:15 pm

Emor wrote:
Okay, I have Asperges Syndrome. So does a guy I really like and have known for most of my life.
Now before I go into detail, I'd like to state my age, that being 13, as I've found some people feel rather insulted that they've wasted their time talking to a 13 year old, so, yeah, if you don't want to talk to a 13 year old, this thread probably isn't for you :P.
So, anyway, I'd just like to know coming from other people's views with Asperges Syndrome, if you ever unintentionally flirt with someone?
My friends have told me countless times I'm flirting with men, and I honestly didn't know I was, but he seems to be doing the obvious things like kicking my leg under the table, and I've asked some of my friends if several incident were flirting or just a normal social gesture, and a lot of them have said it is flirting.
Problem is I don't really want to have to explain about Asperges, and I don't think he'd appreciate me telling everyone anyway, since he told me about 2 months after I got diagnosed(11 years old) that he had it too at the dinner table.
If you do, how badly have you done it, and you have done obvious things?
Thank you for any responses I receive,
EMZ=]


Aspergers.
(sorry, just got my goat on this one)



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28 Jan 2009, 6:22 pm

mitharatowen wrote:
Emor wrote:
Okay, I have Asperges Syndrome. So does a guy I really like and have known for most of my life.
Now before I go into detail, I'd like to state my age, that being 13, as I've found some people feel rather insulted that they've wasted their time talking to a 13 year old, so, yeah, if you don't want to talk to a 13 year old, this thread probably isn't for you :P.
So, anyway, I'd just like to know coming from other people's views with Asperges Syndrome, if you ever unintentionally flirt with someone?
My friends have told me countless times I'm flirting with men, and I honestly didn't know I was, but he seems to be doing the obvious things like kicking my leg under the table, and I've asked some of my friends if several incident were flirting or just a normal social gesture, and a lot of them have said it is flirting.
Problem is I don't really want to have to explain about Asperges, and I don't think he'd appreciate me telling everyone anyway, since he told me about 2 months after I got diagnosed(11 years old) that he had it too at the dinner table.
If you do, how badly have you done it, and you have done obvious things?
Thank you for any responses I receive,
EMZ=]


Aspergers.
(sorry, just got my goat on this one)

Oh, sorry. I better edit that. Do you know what's weird? Safari's spell checker actually shows your spelling as wrong. I'm way to dependent on that :P.
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