Bad Karma?

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As Ive said before, Ive relied heavily on Online dating due the fact that I really DONT meet women IRL and dont know how.
So I have a profile on OKC and ever since the beginning of January Ive ceased to get replies to my profile(where other female users send me messages expressing interest)and the few messages that Ive initiated have not produced any response. I really dont know WTF is going on but this sudden stroke of bad luck makes me wonder if Im projecting something that is perceived as desperation...........

Send lots and lots of messages, and then you'll be more likely to get a reply. Yeah, desperation ususally makes people not want to respond to you, which makes you even more desperate. It's a vicous cycle, but sometimes it gets broken. Restraint, in the face of horrible emotions, is difficult at best.

If i were you id not go to those online dating sites anyway... thier a waste of money and most of the people on there are fruads...
As hard as it might be real life dating is probibly your best bet...

My best bet, eh? Well thats what I thought when I was YOUR age. And it got me NOTHING but rejection . What actually WORKED was when I placed an (albeit indirect)printed personals ad at age 19 and thats how I met my first gf.