What do I say to her and when?

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This girl I've liked for a while recently found out I like her. Although this makes it easier for me to ask her out, I have no idea what to say to her without sounding completely random. I also don't know when to talk to her, as we only have one class together and it's history, where you don't talk hardly. She's very shy and neither of us has spoken since she found out I like her. So, basically,

1. What do I say to her?

2. When do I say this to her?

Thanks in advance!

As for the when, i've heard that it's better to ask her out alone as opposed to in front of her friends.

It's essential that you don't ask in front of her friends. People behave differently on their own than they do among friends, and you don't want too many other people getting involved anyway.

Another key point: don't make a big deal out of it. Your proposal could be as simple as, "do you want to go get coffee/grab a bite to eat/hang out sometime/(fill in the blank)?" If you don't get worked up thinking it's a date, you won't be stressing out about it and it'll be easier to be yourself. Also, find out what she enjoys. This can be handy info for potential future dates. And above all, be yourself and have fun! ^_^

That's all I got for now. Ganbatte ne!