Alla wrote:
How can a girl become an aspie guy's special interest? This aspie is a workaholic and very well known in his field. Any tips?
Where are you headed with this? Are you a girl who has become an Aspie's special interest?
If so I've a feeling you probably became his special interest - or it might be better put as a hyperfocus - because one way or another he has attained a positive interaction with you that he hasn't attained with other females.
Unfortunately, us Aspies often get the impression girls are more interested in us than they actually are perhaps just because of one positive interaction, one friendly chat, even one look and one smile. I think I've been guilty of that. I think for me it's primarily wishful thinking, because I have less than my share of successful heterosexual interaction.