For me, *he* ended the relationship over a year ago, and it wasn't a long relationship anyway, but looking back really the signs were that he stopped phoning me as often (ie perhaps once every two weeks, but we saw each other in the week anyway) and he stopped hugging me. I knew that he was quite shy so let him hug me, when I'd return it, but I didn't want to make him feel uncomfortable by initiating it - I knew I'd not know whether he was uncomfortable or not. So with hindsight those were really the two clues I could think og - he stopped phoning and hugging.
Thing is, ending a relationship and letting go are completely diffierent - I've not let go yet, and he ended it in September 2004 ...
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