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Have you ever been kissed?
No 18%  18%  [ 13 ]
No 18%  18%  [ 13 ]
Yes 32%  32%  [ 23 ]
Yes 32%  32%  [ 23 ]
Total votes : 72

N_Kuroi
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29 Dec 2005, 5:23 pm

What little friends i have keep deserting me, im losing them left and right. My mother says i come on too hard, but how would i know? People are bad, i hate people. i dont have much experience with them either.

ive asked girls out on dates and always got no for an answer, from "uhh... no..."and walking away slowly to "NO YOU UGLY UGLY BOY"

what should i do? and dont say "wait and she'll find you" cause that junk doesnt work on me.



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29 Dec 2005, 5:33 pm

Make friends with all of the other social misfits.
My best friend has ADHD.
People with ADHD and people with Aspergers can sometimes be a really good fit.
ADHD is also far more prevalent in the female gender then Asperger's is.



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29 Dec 2005, 5:40 pm

MY HEAD HURTS ALL THE SUDDEN oh well...

anyway.. THIS TOWN IS HORRIBLE AND THERE ARE NO GOOD PEOPLE HERE AND I CANT AFFORD TO MOVE



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29 Dec 2005, 5:44 pm

N_Kuroi wrote:
What little friends i have keep deserting me, im losing them left and right. My mother says i come on too hard, but how would i know? People are bad, i hate people. i dont have much experience with them either.


If you think they are bad and hate them - that might be why they are leaving you. Just a thought.

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ive asked girls out on dates and always got no for an answer, from "uhh... no..."and walking away slowly to "NO YOU UGLY UGLY BOY"

what should i do? and dont say "wait and she'll find you" cause that junk doesnt work on me.


Practice makes perfect, I guess... you'd have to find out why they aren't interested in you though.



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29 Dec 2005, 5:45 pm

they have been treating me badly



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29 Dec 2005, 9:18 pm

THEN WHY DO YOU WANT TO MAKE OUT WITH ONE OF THEM?!?!?!?


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29 Dec 2005, 9:23 pm

Because maybe he is lonely?
Because maybe he feels a terrible itch and is tired of being the only one scratching it?
Because he doesn't have a hot tub, let alone the courage to hold a hot tub party on line?
Could be a lot of reasons!



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29 Dec 2005, 9:37 pm

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THEN WHY DO YOU WANT TO MAKE OUT WITH ONE OF THEM?!?!?!?


I agree. If you don't like them, why should they like you? Using them for a temperary solution to lonliness is stupid.

People don't come to you, they never do. You have to go out and find people. Try joining some support groups, or clubs.



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30 Dec 2005, 1:23 pm

My daughter never got on with Nt kids her age, thought them silly etc,

But her best male friend, well best friend is another Aspergic guy, and they get on really well, me I couldn't be more happy for her, try and find people who live near you who also have Aspergers. They make great friends. :D



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08 Jan 2006, 5:46 pm

I've never really had a romantic kiss. And isn't this poll out of sync with the question you have in your original post? Guess it isn't that important.

When I was little, however, I did kiss a black girl who was playing Star Wars toys with me. I was about 5 years old. I don't know why I did it. But our parents thought it was hilarious. :lol:



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11 Jan 2006, 3:54 pm

irishmic wrote:
Make friends with all of the other social misfits.
My best friend has ADHD.
People with ADHD and people with Aspergers can sometimes be a really good fit.
ADHD is also far more prevalent in the female gender then Asperger's is.


I have both ADHD and aspergers.

I was always told because I was a social misfit when I was younger that people called me ugly. Trust me, there just trying to upset or get at you. I have found that I have had 8 relationships now, two long-term (over 9 months) and they thought I was pretty.

Also beauty is in the eye of the beholder, it's true, everyone is attracted to another person.

These girls may even like you but call you this because they don't want to look bad in front of their mates.

Steph x.