I don't know, because being aspie, I've only been able to observe NT+NT courtships. I have no idea what they're like from the inside.
My mate and I are both aspie, and I have noticed a lot of differences between him and NT men.
*He was much more honest and straightforward than an NT would be (in my experience). He told me beforehand of everypossible reason why getting together with him miight not be a good idea. Interestingly enough, the fact that he did this rather than just letting me "find out later" meant that I compromised on things that I might not have otherwise, because I had time to think and consider it all before we got in too deep. (Our courtship was largely over the net and phone for the first few months).
*He was more obsessive than any NT I've ever run across. If an NT guy had acted the way that he did, I would have been creeped out and would have fled. As it was, I had to face the fact that I'm just as obsessive, and now I knew how all the poor NT guys I had been obsessive over must have felt...
*He was a lot more sensitive to any signs of rejection. Again, now I had an idea of how I must've looked to NT's.... I guess when you go your whole life feeling like a reject, you do become very fragile and hyper-sensitive....
*At first, we stimmed a lot more than usual- with both vocal stims as well as the rocking, hand flapping, etc. It was such a delight to be able to be oneself for a change that we might have overdone it from an onlooker's point of view.
*A lot of times, it isn't necessary to say anything. Silence is just as pleasant as yakking. Or, we might both talk at length of some subject that others woudl find boring.
*He's also been a lot more romantic and sweeter than any NT I've yet encountered.
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Were there specifics that you were wondering or concerned about?