14 May 2009, 2:56 am
14 May 2009, 4:38 am
dude you can totally ask her where the bathroom is as long as you say "good. meet me there in 5 minutes" 
haha seriously don't worry about making an ass of yourself. Just tell her you wanna hang out with her after work and need to know how she's going to facilitate this. If she says no, big whoop, nothing has changed. and while I was joking about the bathroom thing, if you do say that, there's a 50/50 chance she'll actually meet you there.
14 May 2009, 6:59 am
You're gonna get the bloke killed Alex!
See if anyone else there knows her OP. Find out what kind of stuff she might be into. Like, if she comes in on an off day wearing a FFDP t-shirt or something, then yea, she probably likes them. Once you start a conversation, it's simple. No asking for bathrooms though. You work there, it'll be overly obvious. Or ask for help with a project. That might get her attention, and get you to spend some time alone together.
Husband says I must go. Road trip!
Alex... don't take offence, I was trying to be funny.
14 May 2009, 7:15 am
14 May 2009, 7:22 am
nooo do not investigate her. that is a waste of time and doesn't matter.
Agreed! Also, people like to be asked stuff about themselves: if you don't, she'll think it's because you're not interested, not because you already know her shoe size/favourite band/first pet's name already...
14 May 2009, 9:29 am
i think you have to make up your mind QUICKLY, thats your #1 priority
dont sit around HERE for 3 weeks, debating wether or not you should act
15 May 2009, 2:23 am
Thanks for the advice guys, but I think I talked myself out of it *shrugs*
Besides, how many great songs do YOU know of that are happy? The best material comes from negative emotions. Last time I got all happy about a girl my musical creativity took a big wet dump on me 
But yeah....haven't seen her in like 3 days so I'm sure with my luck she'll be there tomarrow and HERE we GO aGAIN.
15 May 2009, 9:07 am
Besides, how many great songs do YOU know of that are happy? The best material comes from negative emotions. Last time I got all happy about a girl my musical creativity took a big wet dump on me
But yeah....haven't seen her in like 3 days so I'm sure with my luck she'll be there tomarrow and HERE we GO aGAIN.
NO! Stop talking yourself out of it and get back out there! Grr... think of all the poor people on this thread who've wasted their time now... (yes, I'm trying to guilt you into being brave..
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15 May 2009, 1:45 pm
i agree with Lene, you gotta go for it.. i would if i were blessed with such a chance, easier said than done, but for your own sake don't let this "pass you by", "take life by the horns/balls" etc Go for it. 
15 May 2009, 1:57 pm
And then you say, "Hello."
But I can hardly speak,
My heart is beating so,
Most anyone can tell,
You think you know me well,
But you don't know me.
No you don't know the one
Who dreams of you at night;
Who longs to kiss your lips,
Who longs to hold you tight,
You, to me you're just a friend,
That's all I've ever been,
'Cause you don't know me.
For I never knew the art of making love,
Though my heart aches with love for you.
Afraid and shy, I let my chance go by.
A chance that you might love me too.
You give your hand to me,
And then you say, "Goodbye."
I watch you walk away,
Beside that lucky guy.
Oh, you'll never ever know
The one who loved you so,
'Cause you don't know me.
^ Don't be like this person, ask her out - Carpe Diem!
You'll kick yourself if someone else gets there first...
