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cursedone12
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11 Mar 2011, 8:39 pm

Ive come to the conclusion, that "normal" people are a bunch of f*****g idiots, who can only quell their desire for power by creating a social system that requires the cutting down and exclusion of those who are "weird". Its almost like they have to be mean and treat other people like s**t to feel safe in society, or proclaim their dominance by taking pity on those they view as "weak".

I regret wasting the time to learn all of their ways.



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11 Mar 2011, 9:30 pm

Well, unfortunately the world is run by the NT's. We have no choice but to learn to blend in with them unless you just want to go off and live on some deserted island somewhere by yourself, have fun with that.



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11 Mar 2011, 11:40 pm

people seem to be overly insecure, hiding their nature like we would prominently show it. in a way, i pity them, because they face the same problem; they supress themselves to conform to a judgemental society. they live the lie because it is seen as necessary, which doesn't make sense to me seeing how things would improve greatly if people were honest to each other. i wouldn't take it personally, though it is difficult not to. calling them a bunch of f***ing idiots would only bring us to their level.



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12 Mar 2011, 7:05 am

SammichEater wrote:
...you just want to go off and live on some deserted island somewhere by yourself, have fun with that.


:idea: that would surely be nice. if only...



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12 Mar 2011, 8:56 am

auntblabby wrote:
SammichEater wrote:
...you just want to go off and live on some deserted island somewhere by yourself, have fun with that.


:idea: that would surely be nice. if only...


i agree.
oh to live on a deserted island away from people. :heart:



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12 Mar 2011, 3:53 pm

cursedone12 wrote:
Ive come to the conclusion, that "normal" people are a bunch of f***ing idiots, who can only quell their desire for power by creating a social system that requires the cutting down and exclusion of those who are "weird". Its almost like they have to be mean and treat other people like sh** to feel safe in society, or proclaim their dominance by taking pity on those they view as "weak".


Like bears, they are more scared of us than we are of them.


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12 Mar 2011, 3:56 pm

SammichEater wrote:
Well, unfortunately the world is run by the NT's. We have no choice but to learn to blend in with them unless you just want to go off and live on some deserted island somewhere by yourself, have fun with that.


I would welcome that deserted island with open arms, as long as it has the internet, somehow... :?



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13 Mar 2011, 8:34 am

their system is flawed too, you are supposed to respect people and treat them the way you would want to be treated, as long as they are "on your level". however, if you are
rich or beautiful, you can treat people however the hell you damn well please, and they will still like you just because you are rich and beautiful. a severe lack of integrity



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13 Mar 2011, 11:14 am

are you kidding?
people HATE rich/beautiful people who treat others like crap.

you should judge a man on how he treats his lessers, not his equals.



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13 Mar 2011, 3:16 pm

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you should judge a man on how he treats his lessers, not his equals.


Truer words have never been spoken.

In these situations I like to bust out a quote from my favorite animated series:

"The true heart can tough the poison of hatred without being harmed."

I understand your frustration and your anger, cursedone12, but letting their negativity bleed into you or turn you bitter isn't going to make you feel better. That hatred will just fester inside until it taints your every interaction with the world.

Sometimes I hate people. I mean everybody. Sometimes I hate this planet and every human on it. But it goes away the very next time I have a positive interaction with someone. And I try my best to remember that.


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13 Mar 2011, 3:35 pm

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13 Mar 2011, 6:05 pm

I've met a lot of aspie bullies, funnily enough.



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14 Mar 2011, 12:29 am

sad but sometimes the case. Some people just have to feel better by putting others down.


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14 Mar 2011, 7:22 am

Social heirarchys are formed in groups of people of any kind - aspies are no exception as you or I would like to think. I've been in several big groups of aspies including social groups and an Aspergers college and in every one there have been the vulnerable ones and the chatty higher functioning ones. Bullying is just as common. Aspies can be particularly bad because aspies don't get subleties and hints so make it obvious to someone they don't like or want to punish.



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14 Mar 2011, 9:37 am

RiverNight wrote:
sad but sometimes the case. Some people just have to feel better by putting others down.


politics and religion are the worst offenders in this regard.



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14 Mar 2011, 2:39 pm

cursedone12 wrote:
Ive come to the conclusion, that "normal" people are a bunch of f***ing idiots, who can only quell their desire for power by creating a social system that requires the cutting down and exclusion of those who are "weird". Its almost like they have to be mean and treat other people like sh** to feel safe in society, or proclaim their dominance by taking pity on those they view as "weak".

I regret wasting the time to learn all of their ways.

Right!
It annoys me to death that people can't JUST SPEAK THE TRUTH when you ask them a question. Instead they play games with you. When you speak the truth to them though WHOA they can't handle it even when they're asking for it! Oh no, I must first make sure your feelings won't be infringed on in any slight way first. Just exhausting :(


The sad truth for them is this: no one NORMAL ever changed the world.
Learn enough of their ways to open the doors you need and go around the others;
be exceptional and ignore the people that are too shallow to matter.