I've been working on this for a long while since I will usually either not look into the persons eyes at all, look too intently or the standard quckly look, quickly look away, repeat. The one part I got from GroovyDruid's article that helped is the "check-in". I've been able to pay attention to the other persons eyes and see when they go to stare at mine so I can be there with my own. It's hard work so I wish you the best of luck!
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