Drinking and Partying, Clubbing

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I've never liked bars, clubs, parties, ball games, or any of that stuff. I've always felt uncomfortable at them. However, there was a period of my life, when I lived with my parents and sister, that I was often pressured to go to these kind of events. The rule pretty much became if my sister goes, I was going with her. It really disgusted me I was treated that way by all of them, and never understood why. They gave all these reasons that made no sense like I need to get out more, I need to learn how to party, since my sister wanted to go to medical school, I needed to go with her to show I support what she wants to do, and the list goes on. Once she moved out, my parents let me be but then she moved back in and it started up all over again.

I would venture to guess if I was the into going out and partying and she was the one who liked staying in, I would have been the one with the problem for wanting to go out. She was the gold standard I could never meet.

I hate all that partying and nightclub non-sense. I seriously don't see why some people enjoy it, for me it's like hell.

It annoys the HELL out of me when people make a big deal out of drinking because they think it makes them look cool. I remember, the second week of school, seeing one of my high school friends' albums on Facebook titled "We pregame harder than you party" except with stupid decoration. This annoyed me for several reasons.

I looked at the album. It is a group of six people who went to my high school drinking in one of the group's apartment (no new people whatsoever) and taking pictures of themselves. All night. Meanwhile, the Aspie over here was partying with a LOT of new people, talking, dancing, and even more. I blacked out, found a rose from somewhere (I still have no idea whatsoever where that came from), wandered a couple blocks to another party where I gave it to a VERY cute girl (I had help finding her). I didn't put a word of it on Facebook (like making my status "had a wild night" or "is hung over").

It cracks me up and pisses me off at the same time that they were being out-partied by an Aspie and still thought they were super cool.

I enjoy going to parties during weekends

Someone i met at an aspie support group has invited me to his birthday party this weekend but i dont know if i want to go. I have never been to a party like this. I don't like socialising and i dont drink alcohol.

I hear you, I have no interest in those activities; they would make me feel completely nervous and out of place. I understand that the young adults of today like doing those activities and if so, fine by them. The problem for me is I can't seem to fine any people who have my interests and tastes and I just seem to stick out like a sore thumb. I hate the idea of partying and drinking, I'd be in a very loud environment that would hurt my ears, chances are I could run into people who are trouble and I could make an ass out of myself. I would prefer a more quiet setting or one where there isn't so much social interaction expectations.

I still drink moderatly and hang out at bars/clubs with friends once in a while, not as much as I did when I was younger though. Back then, it was one of things I did to "fit in". I had a lot of good times, and when I drank, I felt way more normal then when I didn't.
I met a lot of women that way (and no, they aren't all whores there! Most aren't and just want to fit it and meet people too). Something about alcohol and my mind, I don't know, just makes things easier to say

I respect those who don't choose that lifestyle. I'm not sure if I would of done things differently though. I usually have to experience things to learn from it. Fortunately, I don't have an addictive personality, so all those type of things I've tried never latched on.

Well, I hope they enjoy looking like a leather purse from the thrift store. I graduated 10 years ago and all those girls look like hell: fat, weathered, and skanky.

Drinking ale is good. Unfortunately, I do too much of it.

You must do whatever makes you feel happy in this life, MJackson. In time you'll learn this. If you want a pint, go and have one. If you don't, don't.