I think that you dont necessarily have to maintain long eye contact, some people are shy and they dont feel comfortable with eye contact. What I do to maintain at least minimal eye contact, is follow a triangle: 1. look at the eyes 2. look down 3. look elsewhere. 4. back at the eyes. I read somewhere that this is actually a normal way of keeping eye contact and thinking at the same time.
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the only time i look at eyes is when i want to see what color they are. when i know, i do not want to look at them again. it is dangerous to look at eyes because they are connected to minds that think all kinds of wild things that may be recipes for disaster
thats how i feel too. I think that happens because we are overly focused when we look into someones eyes.
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