Shebakoby wrote:
I would certainly count this as some *sort* of betrayal, however maybe she thinks you are the traitor. guys and gals being friends at all anyway doesn't compute. Obviously she's afraid you'd developed feelings for her; maybe the BF felt threatened romantically. In any case I am of the firm belief that guys and gals can't be friends (acquaintances sure, but out and out friends? nah). Having that belief will keep you out of troubles like this.
i have guy friends i've had for years. you have a very outdated and untrusting of others sort of view.
27 Dec 2015, 11:07 pm
