The friend dilemma
Summer_Twilight wrote:
I think what makes things even harder is that most autistics wants friends so bad. So when a fake friend comes along, we want to make it work with the other person.
It only gets upsetting when these “Nice” people
A. Make it sound like they are our friends but their actions speak louder than words.
B. They start using brutal honesty and then ask us why we are so upset with them.
I think fake friends find us because they think that we are clueless autistics who are “Yes” people who will be push overs.
When in reality, we are too honest for our own good. When we demonstrate that, they don’t know what to do with us.
It only gets upsetting when these “Nice” people
A. Make it sound like they are our friends but their actions speak louder than words.
B. They start using brutal honesty and then ask us why we are so upset with them.
I think fake friends find us because they think that we are clueless autistics who are “Yes” people who will be push overs.
When in reality, we are too honest for our own good. When we demonstrate that, they don’t know what to do with us.
So true.
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