Listen....I am so scared

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Here's a big hug ............ HUG!! !

If you wait another 11 years, you and UbbyUbbyUbby can get married! I'd love you as a daughter-in-law!

Helen

I love you, but sex is out due to age and distance. If I can love the person I only hear on the internet, there is someone who will love you and only you in person.

Change hurts, but where could the past lead? It was a space filler that dead ended, no more.

You wanted something, you got it, now you want something else.

Your heart and mind are open, time to take off the training wheels.

How to do it right, first stop doing it wrong.

You gave what someone else wanted, you deserve what you want.

If I was much younger and had a dog sled...

You KNOW what the bumper sticker says Labpet..."Alaska Girls Kick A-s"
Don't let this get you down, Learn from it and move on...That stupid saying about "Time heals all wounds" is not true...trust me I know this. However it really will dull the pain. You'll be O.K. And I know for a fact that there are tons of guys here who would proably love to date you and who aren't married. How old are you?I'll check around here in Anchorage for you. Maybe someone from WP will move up here. I just explained the PFD on the weather thread. ha ha but true

I'm so sorry. I know right now it's hard to think of hopeful things, but now is the time when hope is what you need to think of most. There is someone out there for you. This coming to an end only means you are a step closer to finding something more meaningful and healthy for you.

Hi unfortunately no amount of words via the web will take the pain away only time will do that. Number one thing to remember is though you did nothing wrong and people can be pricks at time never thinking about the consequences of their actions. I could tell you 100 stories but half of it you would already know. Anyway feel free to drop me a line as the one thing I can do is give you an impartial view on things.

yeh im afraid love really sucks sometimes, but considering he cheated on someone with you he cant be a great reliable person

Have you tried looking on here for a possible mate? Sure, I'm too far away in the good old United Kingdom (and, in any case, I don't know much about you) but there's probably some people near to you, if not your home state then in the continental United States or Canada. There's someone out there for most people but we probably haven't met them yet.

I have been in a similar situation, I had been friends with a man 10 years older than myself, he had no kids but is engaged to another girl.
Our friendship became more of a relationship, even though I was always fully aware that he had another girlfriend.
I loved, well, still love him. He said he loved me to. I believe that he did love me. He was the first man I had ever been with sexually, and I will never ever regret that. I will never regret our 'relationship' because he made me feel very happy, and feel good about myself.

It is hard to move on, but all I really want is for him to be happy, I know I would not have made him happy really I cause too much stress. I have a bf now, not someone I have to share with anybody else.
I am not sure you ever really stop loving people you had once loved, but time makes things easier, so does not seeing them, or their partner!
Nobody deserves to be second best, you will find someone who will love you and care for you above all others.
Send me a pm if you ever want to chat. =) Take Care