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tcorrielus
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20 May 2008, 9:55 pm

tailfins1959 wrote:
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Getting a woman seems to be very tricky. I don't have a girlfriend yet, but I wouldn't lose faith. I'd just take things slow. If you're in school, college, or grad school, you should focus on and finish school first. Maybe a woman will hit on smart guys.



I never really could get a girlfriend, getting a wife was easier. Some women who are "looking" for a husband will tolerate being "interviewed". My wife passed my interview, showed all the signs of good character and we married eight years ago and are still going strong. It's a very Aspie-like approach, but it worked.


What????? What's the difference between getting a girlfriend and getting a wife? I ALWAYS thought that your girlfriend will become your wife thru marriage after having a long-term relationship with her. I don't get it.



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22 May 2008, 10:15 pm

tcorrielus wrote:
tailfins1959 wrote:
tcorrielus wrote:
Getting a woman seems to be very tricky. I don't have a girlfriend yet, but I wouldn't lose faith. I'd just take things slow. If you're in school, college, or grad school, you should focus on and finish school first. Maybe a woman will hit on smart guys.



I never really could get a girlfriend, getting a wife was easier. Some women who are "looking" for a husband will tolerate being "interviewed". My wife passed my interview, showed all the signs of good character and we married eight years ago and are still going strong. It's a very Aspie-like approach, but it worked.


What????? What's the difference between getting a girlfriend and getting a wife? I ALWAYS thought that your girlfriend will become your wife thru marriage after having a long-term relationship with her. I don't get it.


Well that's the general idea, but I guess some people go for the direct-to-marriage approach. Like, some people just get fed up with dating and decide to find someone they actually want to marry, rather than just date.



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23 May 2008, 7:33 pm

tcorrielus wrote:
tailfins1959 wrote:
tcorrielus wrote:
Getting a woman seems to be very tricky. I don't have a girlfriend yet, but I wouldn't lose faith. I'd just take things slow. If you're in school, college, or grad school, you should focus on and finish school first. Maybe a woman will hit on smart guys.



I never really could get a girlfriend, getting a wife was easier. Some women who are "looking" for a husband will tolerate being "interviewed". My wife passed my interview, showed all the signs of good character and we married eight years ago and are still going strong. It's a very Aspie-like approach, but it worked.


What????? What's the difference between getting a girlfriend and getting a wife? I ALWAYS thought that your girlfriend will become your wife thru marriage after having a long-term relationship with her. I don't get it.


When people are just dating, they are still "shopping" to some extent. Marriage is focused on responsibility and commitment.


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24 May 2008, 10:00 am

I'm a woman and even I can't tell--- same for men, too. I always thought if they asked you out, then they like you. Anything short of that could be anything--- yes or no.