datsloth wrote:
I was like emotional sensitive like your ex, and my ex was like you, we always argued too, and after split, I asked if we could get back together too for a few times. The difference is he didn't block me and still wanted to be friends. He was the one who kept approaching me messages everyday and still even though I ignored or postponed to reply. I don't know how long can it last. I'm ignoring him again right now, this time I want to go for a month. He seems to not know what I do is trying to getting rid of my feeling for him. Should I go back telling him? If so, should I say "I will answer your messages when I have time" or bluntly tell him " i want to be friend after I lose all my feelings for you"?
The answer is pretty clear for me:
"Sorry, I need some time. I still have feelings for you and I have to deal with them before I will be ready to treat you as a friend. It might be a week, a month or a few months. I will let you know."
That's what I did when I confessed to my friend and she said she can't feel anything towards me other than sisterly love. We had a few months "time out" back then before I could contact her normaly. 6 years passed since that incident and we are still friends(although she is currently "ghosting" me for some reason as I mentioned before).
We had a bicker two nights ago. He told me to stop loving him, and I told him I said nothing. Then I said I didn't want him no more. We exchanged "good luck". I ended it with "I'm getting busier with my life, I would only respond you when I have. If you have anything big concerns or issue you still want to tell me feel free to message me, I'll respond asap." And I started to postponed to reply his messages.
04 Mar 2018, 4:17 pm
