Why can't I have friends?

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26 Jan 2008, 11:50 pm

I haven't been to one yet.

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26 Jan 2008, 11:56 pm

How do you know all the AS are guys ? ( Other than odds or leaning that way)

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26 Jan 2008, 11:59 pm

Because, AS is rare in girls here.

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27 Jan 2008, 12:05 am

Do you WANT to meet girls with AS? I think Aspie Affection has a friends opportunity.

Although my complaint about the site is it should notify you through Email if someones left a message.

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27 Jan 2008, 12:31 am

I dunno. I don't think most girls with AS would share the same interests as me. IdahoRose and I get along well, online.

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27 Jan 2008, 12:34 am

What are the intrests?

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29 Jan 2008, 6:10 am

Berserker wrote:

WHY? It's so unfair. My brother has friends, but I don't. But he goes to school, whereas I sit at home and play video games all day. What is Berserker to do...

go beserk?

try making online friends first it can help your social skills improve.and online mates can still be good mates.

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29 Jan 2008, 6:14 am

Berserker wrote:

I have a short temper, and I hurt people when angered.

i have that too but special schools are better with dealing with anger and aspergers. and try seeing a physcologist they could get you back into school. and when you get angry you need someone to help you who understands you that really helps.

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29 Jan 2008, 1:55 pm

Your mean sometimes.

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30 Jan 2008, 5:01 pm

Maybe, it is possible to find some interesting circles, clubs or groups of people with common hobbies in your town? Of course, one of the best variants is start going to school again - there is a good chance to meet new people and friends.

Berserker wrote:

I don't think most girls with AS would share the same interests as me.

It may be even not very important - it is always possible to have a talk "about nothing" or "about life" (It may be a little difficult, but this skill is important to have relationships with people).

P.S. I have an idea - can your extraverted brother invite his friends at your home and have party/holiday? May be, parties are little annoying for you, but it is a good way to meet new people too.

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30 Jan 2008, 7:45 pm

I can't go back to school. Period.

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31 Jan 2008, 12:16 pm

beserker have you tried any social groups?

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31 Jan 2008, 1:29 pm

TrueDave wrote:

I hear that a lot, girls that get along better with guys and vice versa. It might be the same reason people are nice to tourists different culture, more acceptance .

So true. I find it much easier to socialise with females, as I have no interest in cars, sports or most things males are usually interested in. I'm not interested in makeup, shopping, etc either, but women don't assume I have an interest in these things, so it's massively easier. I don't have any male friends, and haven't for a long time, for this reason.

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31 Jan 2008, 6:24 pm

dragonboy wrote:

beserker have you tried any social groups?

There's none in this town.

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