HowlingMad1992 wrote:
I want to ask a question and I want to know if anyone else on this board feels the same way. When you see two best friends or a number of them, do you wonder how or why they have that speical bound?. I find it hard to describe or maybe I'm just jealous.
This needs to be in a separate thread. Yes I did, to a certain extent I still do, but I have some sort of bond with my friends now. It can be awkward still to understand but you can have something, it doesn’t happen over night. It was a learning curve I only figure it out three years ago. 'Bonding' is actually real time input and output or 'reciprocal' friendship. That means you have to remember to make an effort and do you part, fortunately my friends are pretty forgiving/easy going so it is not something too strenuous. It is something that must be maintained though. It is not something that you achieve then that is it.