I'm 46, my wife is 32....and every time my wife shows her co-workers a picture of us together and then tell them how old I am, she says their collective jaws drop and they say they'd have never guessed it, that we both look the same age. (Mother Nature has been a bit kinder to me in terms of physical aging.) I also feel like I'm 10-15 years younger than I am, while my wife says she feels 10-15 years older than she is, so we actually tend to balance each other out quite nicely.
I had a drinking problem in my 20s. I could never socialize unless I had a few drinks in me, which allowed me to shed my own shyness and insecurity and join in with my peers. Since I found I loved to socialize, that also meant I had to inbibe often. You know how the college years are when a typical person goes through his partying stage, and then he graduates college he puts that mentality behind him? Well, I never outgrew that stage. Even into my late-20s and early-30s I was still behaving like a college freshman. It was only after getting into trouble a bunch of times that I finally decided it was time to get my head outta my ass and grow up. I closed that chapter of my life and turned the page. However, it's said that when a person starts drinking, his emotional growth stops, and when the alcoholic finally sobers up, he finds that his mentality is still where it was when he first started. And this is certainly true with me, though now I'm not entirely sure if my stunted emotional growth was caused from my drinking or my AS...or a combination of the two.
Every now and then I'll see pictures in the newspaper of a high-school reunion of people who graduated around the same time as myself, and I always think that these people can't be the same age as me, they look much older....more like their parents! I mean, they're old, and fat, and bald.....and I'm not. 