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CaptainTrips222
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19 Aug 2009, 5:53 am

When I'm nice and outgoing, people get snobby for some reason. When I finally give up and start being passive aggressive and refusing to look at them, they instantly get all happy and friendly.



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19 Aug 2009, 6:14 am

true-especially in establishing romantic relationships-so who is it exactly that has the disorder?



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19 Aug 2009, 8:16 am

maybe people dont trust others who are too nice, i know i dont trust them.



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19 Aug 2009, 4:17 pm

Aimless wrote:
true-especially in establishing romantic relationships-so who is it exactly that has the disorder?


I didn't want to say it, but yeah, basically it's women I have this problem with. Jerks when I'm nice, and nice when I'm a jerk.



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19 Aug 2009, 4:52 pm

I have seen men responding to women the same way-no one wants anyone that wants them. I don't want to have to pretend hostility towards someone so they'll find me more intriguing.