sciencepanda wrote:
If you feel that you aren't ready to just talk to them outright, ask for their IM address and periodically say hello through that. It tends to be considerable easier to chat with people when they aren't face to face.
And then, after a while, if you seem to be getting along well, ask if they'd like to hang out in person. I've generally had pretty consistent success with this.
agreed. i also use myspace for this purpose. much success