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Kalikimaka
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12 Dec 2009, 6:22 pm

Alright, I swore off this whole support site crap, BUT I really am clueless ATM so it's better than nothing.

It hasn't been THAT bad socially in my first semester. But I haven't really balanced my social life with my relationships the best. I just got out of a couple short relationships (using them as my main social outlet) and by the time they were over, the people I was tight with at the beginning of the year had kinda gone off on their own adventures. Hell, I'm even a sore thumb at house parties now.

Choice of extracurricular activities is kinda empty. In spring I AM considering pledging to a fraternity after getting along with the potential brothers (and neighboring sisters!)

Aside from that, though, there's really not much to do. The people I know are never at dinner at the same time, I don't mesh with a lot of people in my current classes, and I just kind of, uh, suck ass at mingling. Pointers?



devey
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12 Dec 2009, 7:32 pm

I'm starting the last week of the semester and I understand how you're feeling. I wish I could give some advice but I'm going through something similar. All I can suggest is maybe start going to new places where you can meet different people?