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I never know how to handle these--help?

I went to this event at a sorority the other night, the chapter president told me to drop in some night, because they're usually chilling there. These girls a few floors down have told me to stop by their room anytime.

Only thing is I have trouble gauging when/how often to make these "drop in"s (especially when I've had to deal with clingy dudes following me whenever they want). Should I just pick a random weekend night with nothing to do, drop in and hope for the best?

Try to get someone's phone number and call them when you are bored. You'd have to be really brave to just pop in.

Well... I would presume that a weekend night is going to be more likely a night that some of the girls will be scheduling dates; an invitation to 'drop in' to me seems more like something on a weekday evening. If there is someone you want to ask out, or get to know better, this is a no-pressure, no-strings way to do so. You might consider having a couple suggestions for something to do that night, as well. It sounds like a nice opportunity; have fun.


M.