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sandbox1944
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18 Apr 2009, 11:29 pm

Does an aspie say "I am sorry" when proven wrong in his judgments towards a person?



19 Apr 2009, 12:51 am

Some do, some don't. Same as other people.



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19 Apr 2009, 3:28 am

I make it a point to apologize - and I probably do it too much. In particular, I apologize to my kids if I do anything wrong (like not believe them when they claim to have not broken something). I feel that it's an essential part of their upbringing to know that everyone makes mistakes and that it doesn't belittle yourself to apologize.



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19 Apr 2009, 4:20 am

How about to friends?



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19 Apr 2009, 5:14 pm

sandbox1944 wrote:
How about to friends?


I don't usually make judgements one way or another with friends, so I don't often feel the need to apologise. That said, I've probably not said sorry (with meaning) as often as I should. (eg: when I'm late for an outing, I'll just give a mumbled apology). I'm always very apologetic with co-workers though, even when it's not my fault.



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19 Apr 2009, 5:41 pm

gbollard wrote:
sandbox1944 wrote:
How about to friends?


I don't usually make judgements one way or another with friends, so I don't often feel the need to apologise. That said, I've probably not said sorry (with meaning) as often as I should. (eg: when I'm late for an outing, I'll just give a mumbled apology). I'm always very apologetic with co-workers though, even when it's not my fault.


if the other person is a bastar*, i don't apologise, he don't deserve