Thoughts on the AVERAGE Neurotypic/ Please comment

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JohnConnor
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15 Apr 2011, 12:04 pm

I am not anti Neurotypic I just have a perspective that some people might find offensive but I really just do not care. I was 26 when I was diagnosed. Since then my entire life has changed, step by step my entire life has become a rehabilitation process. It is my general opinion that the average Neurotypic is really not worth one's time to get to know but here are some excpetions to that thought.

BTW this message mainly applies to Aspies who are rehabilitating themselves and have a good grip on their employment situation as well as their education. But of course anyone can feel free to chip in their two cents.

1.) The average Neurotypic at the end of the day only cares about him or herself. Hence I am the same way.
2.) I would rather spend my time around a Neurotypic who is well educated and has a lust for life along with ambition.
3.) I like the idea of having average Neurotpics as friends and it is something that I am working on mainly because they can provide opportunities for dating and or sex. I in turn would have to be the life of the party for them. For an Aspie, figuring out how to do this can be tricky.
4.) Be choosy about which of Neurotypics you want to associate with, for me they must have at the very least a bachelors degree.
5.) Know that even though they maybe your friends today, they will leave you to suit their own interests. Also if your life takes a turn for the worse, most of them will not have your back. Only one or two will. Hence majority of them are unreliable.



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15 Apr 2011, 12:38 pm

You sound more like a psychopath then an aspie...

"Must have at least a bachelor's degree"?! WTF! Don't you know that all sorts of idiots attend institutions of higher education these days? And what makes you so high and mighty??
Because judging by your post, you really don't seem to posses the selflessnes, respect for objective truth and independence that aspies pride themselves with.



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15 Apr 2011, 12:44 pm

Theres no need to get angry. I'm basing this off of actual experience.
You are who you hang out with.
People, when it comes down to the bottom line only care about themselves.

You can think I'm a psychopath, I really don't care.

Oh and BTW I know that there are alot of idiots that attend higher institutions, I avoid them too because people no matter who they are have the potential to take you down with them with their bad habits and or ways of thinking.



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15 Apr 2011, 12:47 pm

I am selfless when it comes to family, close friends, and those who help me. Everyone else, I can take or leave. I'm not saying I am 100% correct, just basing it off of experience both first and second hand.



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15 Apr 2011, 1:00 pm

Sorry if I came out to hostile. I have a great deal of angst and frustration lately and I'm trying to vent it out in a way as less damaging to me as possible.

I'm not saying you're a psychopath, just that your set of rules seem pretty insensitive.



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15 Apr 2011, 10:18 pm

Am I a sensitive person, not the way modern society would like me to be. I'm starting to really learn how to have fun at other peoples' expense. Feels like payback.