I need help! it's important! at least to me...

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Not sure where to put this but it is important that I find some help here...
Well I'll finally say this..
Not long ago (just a few weeks or so) Someone who I thought was my best freind (and sadly my only freind) Has ruined the freindship
I worked so hard for... now I have no friends at all... I wonder if any one here is willing help me with this problem.
So... if anyone can help... I might decide to say what happened.
I really feel like it was all "set up" if you know what Mean.
And to think... he did it all just to get something from me that wasn't really speacial... A very old Baywatch Toy Car?

HELP I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY HE DID THIS!! ! THERE IS A LOT MORE TO IT THAN THAT!! !

I'll tell you more if you can help me understand all the strange things that happend before and after that day...

All I want is a real freind... it makes me very sad knowing that people have always betrayed me every time they seemed like a friend...
So many have done thing worse than what he did... but this one is very upsetting becuase of something I heard him say... please help!

How to make friends? You're asking Aspies for advice on how to make friends? I'll give it a shot in the dark...

To make friends, be friendly - loving, joyful, peaceful, patient, kind, good, faithful, gentle, and in control of yourself.

That last one includes not letting anyone manipulate or take advantage of you; no one likes a pushover.

PLEASE UNDERSTAND... I AM ALWAYS NICE TO EVERYONE!! ! but this is not about making friends...

it is about figuring out why this keeps happening to me every time someone seems like a friend...

maybe i'm just the one that everyone chose to treat me as cruel as they can...

I'm I really an easy target!?

by the why... nothing is more important than a real friend who cares...

I"M SAD OK!! !!

Maybe this thread belongs in The Haven (another forum on this website).

I'm not saying that you aren't nice.

Why does it happen? Maybe you trust too much? Maybe you think being nice involves giving others whatever they ask for? Maybe being nice is the only behavior you're known for?

It is not a bad thing to say, "No". It only seems bad when someone was expecting you to say "Yes" and they react badly, treat you badly, and say bad things about you for not letting them have their way with you. Such a someone was never your friend.

We would really have to know exactly what happened to make any relevant comments on it.

I am very sorry but my computer is having issues... I typed a lot more information but I lost it...
I have to start over another time... again... I am very sorry... hope this wasn't a waste of time...

Aslo I am known for other behavoirs on occasion...
I do have my issues...

what i do not understand is why i can not cantact him at all anywhere!! ! i'm sure we can work things out if i ccould meet him again...
i know where he lives but no one comes to the door... so i gave up trying to do that... and no one ever answers the phone...
I would like to see him again and possibly solve this issue... if i did somthing wrong i'd like him to tell me what i did...