When you use the machine comparisons. Theres still some skeptism. For social knowledge, NT use their intuition to subconsciously navigate the social realm. Aspies typically need to get taught these step by step, machine like rules for social interaction. Even when as aspie has carefully nailed majority of the social "rules", there are still problems because we still lack the intuitive functioning to process social information. We end up using our intellect to process social information whereas NTs are probably using a different part of their brain. Humans are not machines in the end. What works for one person is not always gonna work for another person even if the person is of a very similar demographic to that other person.
I havent come up with any good analogies in which NTs would easily understand.
One I thought of is, Aspergers is inability in being able to communicate in the same way as elderly people cant walk very well without a cane. We can communicate a little, just not very well and we often need social supports. Elderly people can walk technically, they have a lot of trouble and need supports.