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WhiteWidow
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13 Dec 2011, 12:47 pm

And each time we do we usually don't have much to say to each other. I ask them lots of questions about their going-on's. Yet they never ask me about my going-on's. They're not interested in what I have to say. At least that's how I see it. They're really nice to me. They drive me home after each work out, and toke with me. They're great people. But the conversation is very stagnant, and usually leads me to take the reigns. I use to be really funny. I use to do stand up comedy, and tell jokes and they'd come see me sometimes and the boyfriend of the girlfriend (It's a couple, who is sister of one of my friends that I don't talk too much any more.) But that shouldn't affect the relationship between me and them should it?

I'm still funny, just not all over the place, like i use to be



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13 Dec 2011, 4:58 pm

I don't think you're doing anything wrong...that's just the reality of friendships. Not everything is exciting or hilarious all of the time. When you spend a lot of time with particular people, most of your times will be just like this...simply casual.


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Given a “tentative” diagnosis as a child as I needed services at school for what was later correctly discovered to be a major anxiety disorder.

This misdiagnosis caused me significant stress, which lessened upon finding out the truth about myself from my current and past long-term therapists - that I am an anxious and highly sensitive person but do not have an autism spectrum disorder.

My diagnoses - social anxiety disorder and obsessive-compulsive disorder.

I’m no longer involved with the ASD world.