Not good at socializing but don't hate to.

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I'm really awful at it mostly because I don't know what to say, honestly, so I'm usually very quiet. I talk more online because it gives me enough time to actually THINK what to say. I'm also really nervous I'd say something stupid or look like some kind of creep. I guess I look creepier NOT talking though! People usually misunderstand me and think I hate talking to people, or that I hate people, but I can't survive a day without being around other people. I get a really awesome feeling from being in a group, even though I don't talk, but only if everyone else is happy. I tend to feel other people's emotions so normally I'm only sad either alone or by people who are sad. How I feel most of the time is happy though, I'm not a sad person at all, just overly sensitive. How do I get myself to talk more?

I like being surrounded by people I know, I talk but most of the time I listen. I grew up with a big family (there were 6 of us) but nowadays I live mostly by myself. It's not terrible but would be good to have some people around

I agree, I do not detest being social either, my mind just likes being asocial. When I am alone I have more time and more ability to do the things I like best, Research and study. My house is going to be a library.

I do not hate social, I just prefer and like being alone with my resources.